WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:11.300 Mahaifiyar mu Aisha Allah ya kara mata yarda 00:00:11.300 --> 00:00:16.690 Ya Aisha ki so shi, don ina son shi 00:00:16.690 --> 00:00:24.660 Yarjejeniya tsakanin ma'aurata kan batutuwan da suka shafi iyali 00:00:24.660 --> 00:00:28.660 Yana taimaka musu su yi tafiya cikin rayuwa ba tare da matsala ba 00:00:28.660 --> 00:00:34.750 Ɗaya daga cikin waɗannan batutuwa shine dangantaka da daidaikun mutane masu alaƙa da dangi 00:00:34.750 --> 00:00:39.750 Wannan dangantakar na iya haifar da ƙarin kuɗin shiga ga iyali 00:00:39.750 --> 00:00:42.750 Yana iya haifar da haɗin kai mai ƙarfi 00:00:42.750 --> 00:00:47.750 Na so da kauna a wani bangare na iyali 00:00:47.750 --> 00:00:49.750 Za ta bayyana a gare shi 00:00:49.750 --> 00:00:54.979 Idan daidaito tsakanin ma'aurata bai faru akan wannan hali ba 00:00:54.979 --> 00:00:57.979 Yawan kishi yana tasowa tsakanin ma'aurata 00:00:57.979 --> 00:01:03.979 Matsaloli suna faruwa ko an ƙirƙira su ba tare da bayyana ainihin dalili ba 00:01:03.979 --> 00:01:10.329 Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya yi taka tsantsan wajen tarbiyyar iyalansa 00:01:10.329 --> 00:01:14.329 Don magance wannan matsalar kafin ta faru 00:01:14.329 --> 00:01:21.329 Ya hori mata musamman a kan ladubban da ke hana irin wannan matsalar faruwa 00:01:21.329 --> 00:01:25.359 Domin muna magana ne game da aboki, 'yar abokin 00:01:25.359 --> 00:01:30.359 Wanda Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya taso da kansa 00:01:30.359 --> 00:01:33.359 Za mu ambaci yanayin da ta shiga 00:01:33.359 --> 00:01:38.359 Yana kunshe da koyarwar Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ga ita ko ta wasu 00:01:38.359 --> 00:01:41.359 A cikin batunmu a cikin wannan labarin 00:01:41.359 --> 00:01:47.519 Matsayi na farko yana da alaƙa da son Annabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama 00:01:47.519 --> 00:01:51.519 Na Usama bn Zaid, Allah Ya yarda da su duka 00:01:51.519 --> 00:01:56.519 Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya bayyana haka a lokuta da dama 00:01:56.519 --> 00:02:00.519 Da kaunarsa ga Osama ya sanar da jama'a 00:02:00.519 --> 00:02:04.519 An kar~o daga Abdullahi bn Umar Allah Ya yarda da su baki ]aya 00:02:04.519 --> 00:02:09.520 Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya aiko da manzanci 00:02:09.520 --> 00:02:12.520 Usama bin Zaid ne ya umarce su 00:02:12.520 --> 00:02:15.520 Don haka mutane suka kalubalanci masarautarsa 00:02:15.520 --> 00:02:19.520 Sai Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya mike ya ce 00:02:19.520 --> 00:02:22.520 Idan ka kalubalanci shugabancinsa 00:02:22.520 --> 00:02:26.520 Kun kasance kuna kalubalantar masarautar mahaifinsa a baya 00:02:26.520 --> 00:02:30.520 Kuma na rantse da Allah shi ne mahaliccin masarautar 00:02:30.520 --> 00:02:34.520 Ko da na mutanen da na fi so ne 00:02:34.520 --> 00:02:38.520 Wannan ga mafi soyuwar mutane bayansa 00:02:38.520 --> 00:02:40.780 Bukhari ne ya ruwaito shi 00:02:40.780 --> 00:02:44.780 Annabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama yana yi wa kowa bushara 00:02:44.780 --> 00:02:47.780 Yana son Usama bin Zaid 00:02:47.780 --> 00:02:52.780 Usama daga wajen iyalan gidan manzon Allah s.a.w 00:02:52.780 --> 00:02:57.780 Ta yaya Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya raya iyalansa da soyayyarsa? 00:02:57.780 --> 00:02:59.780 Mun ambata shi a baya 00:02:59.780 --> 00:03:04.780 Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi yana amfani da yanayin rayuwa 00:03:04.780 --> 00:03:08.780 A wajen raya iyalansa da sahabbansa da suke kusa da shi 00:03:08.780 --> 00:03:12.780 Allah Ta'ala Ya yarda da su baki daya 00:03:12.780 --> 00:03:15.000 Daya daga cikin wadannan yanayi 00:03:15.000 --> 00:03:18.000 Abin da A’isha, Allah Ya yarda da ita ta ruwaito 00:03:18.000 --> 00:03:20.000 Inda ta ce 00:03:20.000 --> 00:03:25.060 Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya so ya fitar da miyau mai guba 00:03:25.060 --> 00:03:27.060 Aisha tace 00:03:27.060 --> 00:03:31.060 Bari in zama mai yin shi 00:03:31.060 --> 00:03:32.060 Yace 00:03:32.060 --> 00:03:35.060 Haba Aisha ki so shi 00:03:35.060 --> 00:03:37.060 Ina son shi 00:03:37.060 --> 00:03:39.419 Tirmizi ne ya ruwaito shi 00:03:39.419 --> 00:03:45.419 Yarjejeniyar tsakanin ma'aurata don son ƙaramin yaro daga wajen iyali 00:03:45.419 --> 00:03:49.419 Yana hana cutar da kowane bangare ya yi masa 00:03:49.419 --> 00:03:53.419 Musamman idan wannan yaron daga wata matar mijin ne 00:03:53.419 --> 00:03:59.419 Mace mai hankali tana son 'ya'yan mijinta don samun soyayyarsa 00:03:59.419 --> 00:04:02.419 Yana son wadanda yake so 00:04:02.419 --> 00:04:04.479 Yana iya zama akasin haka 00:04:04.479 --> 00:04:07.479 Don haka ilimi na yara ne 00:04:07.479 --> 00:04:10.479 Don su dace da mahaifinsu a cikin waɗanda suke son su 00:04:10.479 --> 00:04:12.479 Wannan shine matsayi na biyu 00:04:12.479 --> 00:04:17.480 Abin da A’isha, Allah Ya yarda da ita ta ce: 00:04:17.480 --> 00:04:21.480 Ya aika matan Annabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama 00:04:21.480 --> 00:04:25.480 Fatima ‘yar Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi 00:04:25.480 --> 00:04:29.480 Zuwa ga Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi 00:04:29.480 --> 00:04:34.509 Sai na neme shi izini a lokacin da yake kwance da ni a kan gadona 00:04:34.509 --> 00:04:36.509 Don haka ya ba ta izini 00:04:36.509 --> 00:04:38.509 Sai ta ce, ya Manzon Allah 00:04:38.509 --> 00:04:41.509 Mazajenku sun aiko ni gare ku 00:04:41.509 --> 00:04:44.509 Ya ce ka yi adalci ga diyar Abu Quhafa 00:04:44.509 --> 00:04:46.509 Nayi shiru 00:04:46.509 --> 00:04:48.509 Sai ta ce 00:04:48.509 --> 00:04:52.509 Sai Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya ce mata 00:04:52.509 --> 00:04:54.509 Duk wani tsari 00:04:54.509 --> 00:04:56.509 Ba ku son abin da nake so? 00:04:56.509 --> 00:04:58.509 Tace eh 00:04:58.509 --> 00:04:59.509 Yace 00:04:59.509 --> 00:05:01.540 Don haka son wannan 00:05:01.540 --> 00:05:03.540 Ta ce 00:05:03.540 --> 00:05:09.699 Fatima ta tashi jin haka daga Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi 00:05:09.699 --> 00:05:13.699 Sai na koma wajen matan Annabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama 00:05:13.699 --> 00:05:16.699 Don haka ta gaya musu abin da ta ce 00:05:16.699 --> 00:05:20.699 Kuma abin da Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya ce mata 00:05:20.699 --> 00:05:22.699 Haka suka gaya mata 00:05:22.699 --> 00:05:25.699 Bamu tsammanin kayi mana komai ba 00:05:25.699 --> 00:05:29.699 Don haka ku koma ga Manzon Allah, tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi 00:05:29.699 --> 00:05:31.699 Don haka ku gaya masa 00:05:31.699 --> 00:05:35.699 Matan ku suna neman ku a yi muku adalci dangane da diyar Abu Quhafa 00:05:35.699 --> 00:05:37.699 Fatima tace 00:05:37.699 --> 00:05:41.699 Wallahi bazan taba yi masa magana akai ba 00:05:41.699 --> 00:05:43.959 Muslim ne ya ruwaito shi 00:05:43.959 --> 00:05:48.959 Fadin Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ga diyarsa Fatima 00:05:48.959 --> 00:05:49.959 Duk wani tsari 00:05:49.959 --> 00:05:52.959 Ba ku son abin da nake so? 00:05:52.959 --> 00:05:57.959 Ya isa a ce wa kowace yarinya musulma 00:05:57.959 --> 00:06:02.959 Idan 'yar tana son ta zama adali ga mahaifinta 00:06:02.959 --> 00:06:08.089 Aiwatar da kalmar Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama tsari ne 00:06:08.089 --> 00:06:14.089 Ya isa ya sanya zuciyar yarinya ta kuɓuta daga ƙiyayya, mugunta da mugunta 00:06:14.089 --> 00:06:18.089 Yana kare harshenta daga gulma da gulma 00:06:18.089 --> 00:06:23.089 Ya isa ya hana matsala tsakanin 'ya'ya maza da mata masu aure 00:06:23.089 --> 00:06:29.220 Daga cikin ladubban da Manzon Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama ya shiryar da mace 00:06:29.220 --> 00:06:33.220 Don gujewa shiga cikin irin waɗannan matsalolin 00:06:33.220 --> 00:06:37.220 Dangane da bambancin hali ga mutane 00:06:37.220 --> 00:06:42.220 Kada mace ta bar kowa ya shiga gidan aure 00:06:42.220 --> 00:06:45.279 Sai dai wanda mijin ya yarda da su 00:06:45.279 --> 00:06:48.279 Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi ya ce 00:06:48.279 --> 00:06:53.279 Ba ya halatta ga mace ta yi azumi alhali mijinta shaida ne sai da izininsa 00:06:53.279 --> 00:06:57.279 Kada ku shiga gidansa sai da izininsa 00:06:57.279 --> 00:06:59.470 Bukhari ne ya ruwaito shi 00:06:59.470 --> 00:07:02.470 Ya ce, Allah Ya jikansa da rahama 00:07:02.470 --> 00:07:05.470 Lalle ne ku, kuna da hakki a kan matanku 00:07:05.470 --> 00:07:08.470 Kuma matanku suna da hakki a kanku 00:07:08.470 --> 00:07:11.470 Amma hakkinku akan matanku? 00:07:11.470 --> 00:07:14.470 Kada waɗanda kuke ƙi su shiga cikin gadajenku 00:07:14.470 --> 00:07:18.470 Ba ya barin wanda kuke ƙi ya shiga gidajenku 00:07:18.470 --> 00:07:20.470 Tirmizi ne ya ruwaito shi 00:07:20.470 --> 00:07:26.759 Wannan hadisin yana nuni da banbancin halayen mutane tsakanin ma'aurata 00:07:26.759 --> 00:07:31.759 Don kada wannan bambamcin ya shafi alakar ma'aurata 00:07:31.759 --> 00:07:35.759 An umurci matar da ta nisantar da mutanen da take so 00:07:35.759 --> 00:07:39.759 Miji baya son su daga gidan aure 00:07:39.759 --> 00:07:41.759 Basu shiga gidan 00:07:41.759 --> 00:07:44.759 Ba sa kusantar dangi 00:07:44.759 --> 00:07:47.759 Kariya ga wannan iyali daga matsaloli 00:07:47.759 --> 00:07:51.889 Idan wannan da'a ta kasance don kare dangi 00:07:51.889 --> 00:07:55.889 Mace ba ta barin duk wanda mijinta ya ƙi ya shiga gidanta 00:07:55.889 --> 00:08:00.889 Ta yaya za mu iya shigar da waɗanda Allah Maɗaukaki ya ƙi a cikin zukatanmu? 00:08:00.889 --> 00:08:04.889 Ko kuma masu adawa da Annabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallama 00:08:04.889 --> 00:08:06.889 Kuma suna izgili da Sunnarsa 00:08:06.889 --> 00:08:11.889 Ko kuma suna kalubalantar darajar matansa, uwayen muminai 00:08:11.889 --> 00:08:17.920 Shin bama son wadanda Manzon Allah tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi yake so? 00:08:17.920 --> 00:08:21.180 Mu so Aisha, Allah ya kara mata yarda 00:08:21.180 --> 00:08:24.180 Muna sanyawa ‘ya’yanmu mata suna 00:08:24.180 --> 00:08:26.180 Kuma muna kare shi 00:08:26.180 --> 00:08:29.180 Mun yada tarihinta a tsakanin mutane 00:08:29.180 --> 00:08:36.179 Ka zama abin koyi ga duk macen da take son Allah da Manzonsa, tsira da amincin Allah su tabbata a gare shi 00:08:36.179 --> 00:08:40.620 Zamu cigaba a taro mai zuwa insha Allah 00:08:40.620 --> 00:08:43.620 Godiya ta tabbata ga Allah Ubangijin talikai 00:08:43.620 --> 00:08:50.570 Mahaifiyar mu Aisha Allah ya kara mata yarda