WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:11.300 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:00:11.300 --> 00:00:16.690 O Aisha, love him, for I love him 00:00:16.690 --> 00:00:24.660 Agreement between spouses on family-related issues 00:00:24.660 --> 00:00:28.660 It helps them to walk through life without problems 00:00:28.660 --> 00:00:34.750 One of these issues is the relationship with individuals related to the family 00:00:34.750 --> 00:00:39.750 This relationship may lead to increased income for the family 00:00:39.750 --> 00:00:42.750 It may lead to strong emotional attachment 00:00:42.750 --> 00:00:47.750 Of love and affection on one side of the family 00:00:47.750 --> 00:00:49.750 It will be visible to him 00:00:49.750 --> 00:00:54.979 If compatibility between the spouses does not occur on this character 00:00:54.979 --> 00:00:57.979 Jealousy often arises between spouses 00:00:57.979 --> 00:01:03.979 Problems occur or are created without explaining the real reason 00:01:03.979 --> 00:01:10.329 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was careful in raising his family 00:01:10.329 --> 00:01:14.329 To treat this problem before it occurs 00:01:14.329 --> 00:01:21.329 He instructed women in particular on etiquette that prevents such a problem from occurring 00:01:21.329 --> 00:01:25.359 Because we are talking about the friend, the friend’s daughter 00:01:25.359 --> 00:01:30.359 Which the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, raised on his own 00:01:30.359 --> 00:01:33.359 We will mention the situations she went through 00:01:33.359 --> 00:01:38.359 It contains the teachings of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to her or to others 00:01:38.359 --> 00:01:41.359 In our topic in this article 00:01:41.359 --> 00:01:47.519 The first position is related to love for the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:01:47.519 --> 00:01:51.519 By Osama bin Zaid, may God be pleased with them both 00:01:51.519 --> 00:01:56.519 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, stated this in many instances 00:01:56.519 --> 00:02:00.519 With his love for Osama, he announced it to the people 00:02:00.519 --> 00:02:04.519 On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar, may God be pleased with them both 00:02:04.519 --> 00:02:09.520 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, sent a mission 00:02:09.520 --> 00:02:12.520 Osama bin Zaid commanded them 00:02:12.520 --> 00:02:15.520 So the people challenged his emirate 00:02:15.520 --> 00:02:19.520 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, stood up and said 00:02:19.520 --> 00:02:22.520 If you challenge his leadership 00:02:22.520 --> 00:02:26.520 You were challenging his father's emirate before 00:02:26.520 --> 00:02:30.520 And I swear to God that he is the creator of the emirate 00:02:30.520 --> 00:02:34.520 Even if it is for the people I love most 00:02:34.520 --> 00:02:38.520 This is for the most beloved of people after him 00:02:38.520 --> 00:02:40.780 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:02:40.780 --> 00:02:44.780 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, announces to everyone 00:02:44.780 --> 00:02:47.780 He loves Osama bin Zaid 00:02:47.780 --> 00:02:52.780 Osama is from outside the family of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:02:52.780 --> 00:02:57.780 How did the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, raise his family with his love? 00:02:57.780 --> 00:02:59.780 We mentioned it before 00:02:59.780 --> 00:03:04.780 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, takes advantage of life’s situations 00:03:04.780 --> 00:03:08.780 In raising his family and the companions around him 00:03:08.780 --> 00:03:12.780 May God Almighty be pleased with them all 00:03:12.780 --> 00:03:15.000 One of these situations 00:03:15.000 --> 00:03:18.000 What Aisha, may God be pleased with her, narrated 00:03:18.000 --> 00:03:20.000 Where she said 00:03:20.000 --> 00:03:25.060 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, wanted to expel poisonous mucus 00:03:25.060 --> 00:03:27.060 Aisha said 00:03:27.060 --> 00:03:31.060 Let me be the one who does it 00:03:31.060 --> 00:03:32.060 He said 00:03:32.060 --> 00:03:35.060 Oh Aisha, love him 00:03:35.060 --> 00:03:37.060 I love him 00:03:37.060 --> 00:03:39.419 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:03:39.419 --> 00:03:45.419 The agreement between spouses to love a young child from outside the family 00:03:45.419 --> 00:03:49.419 It prevents harm from being caused to it by any party 00:03:49.419 --> 00:03:53.419 Especially if this child is from another wife of the husband 00:03:53.419 --> 00:03:59.419 A rational woman loves her husband’s children in order to gain his love 00:03:59.419 --> 00:04:02.419 He loves those he loves 00:04:02.419 --> 00:04:04.479 It may be the other way around 00:04:04.479 --> 00:04:07.479 So education is for the children 00:04:07.479 --> 00:04:10.479 To be compatible with their father in those who love them 00:04:10.479 --> 00:04:12.479 This is the second position 00:04:12.479 --> 00:04:17.480 What Aisha, may God be pleased with her, narrates, says: 00:04:17.480 --> 00:04:21.480 He sent the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:21.480 --> 00:04:25.480 Fatima, daughter of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:25.480 --> 00:04:29.480 To the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:29.480 --> 00:04:34.509 So I asked permission for him while he lay with me in my bed 00:04:34.509 --> 00:04:36.509 So he gave her permission 00:04:36.509 --> 00:04:38.509 She said, O Messenger of God 00:04:38.509 --> 00:04:41.509 Your husbands sent me to you 00:04:41.509 --> 00:04:44.509 He asks you to do justice to the daughter of Abu Quhafa 00:04:44.509 --> 00:04:46.509 I am silent 00:04:46.509 --> 00:04:48.509 And she said 00:04:48.509 --> 00:04:52.509 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to her 00:04:52.509 --> 00:04:54.509 Any structure 00:04:54.509 --> 00:04:56.509 Don't you like what I like? 00:04:56.509 --> 00:04:58.509 She said yes 00:04:58.509 --> 00:04:59.509 He said 00:04:59.509 --> 00:05:01.540 So love this one 00:05:01.540 --> 00:05:03.540 She said 00:05:03.540 --> 00:05:09.699 Fatima stood up when she heard that from the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:09.699 --> 00:05:13.699 So I returned to the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:13.699 --> 00:05:16.699 So she told them what she said 00:05:16.699 --> 00:05:20.699 And what the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to her 00:05:20.699 --> 00:05:22.699 So they told her 00:05:22.699 --> 00:05:25.699 We don't think you've done anything for us 00:05:25.699 --> 00:05:29.699 So return to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:29.699 --> 00:05:31.699 So tell him 00:05:31.699 --> 00:05:35.699 Your wives are asking you for justice regarding the daughter of Abu Quhafa 00:05:35.699 --> 00:05:37.699 Fatima said 00:05:37.699 --> 00:05:41.699 By God, I will never talk to him about it 00:05:41.699 --> 00:05:43.959 Narrated by Muslim 00:05:43.959 --> 00:05:48.959 The saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his daughter Fatima 00:05:48.959 --> 00:05:49.959 Any structure 00:05:49.959 --> 00:05:52.959 Don't you like what I like? 00:05:52.959 --> 00:05:57.959 It is enough to be said to every Muslim girl 00:05:57.959 --> 00:06:02.959 If the daughter wants to be righteous towards her father 00:06:02.959 --> 00:06:08.089 Applying the word of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, is a process 00:06:08.089 --> 00:06:14.089 It is enough to make a girl’s heart free of hatred, malice and malice 00:06:14.089 --> 00:06:18.089 He protects her tongue from backbiting and gossiping 00:06:18.089 --> 00:06:23.089 It is enough to prevent problems between sons and stepmothers 00:06:23.089 --> 00:06:29.220 Among the etiquettes that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided the wife to 00:06:29.220 --> 00:06:33.220 To avoid running into such problems 00:06:33.220 --> 00:06:37.220 Based on the difference in attitude towards people 00:06:37.220 --> 00:06:42.220 The wife should not allow anyone to enter the marital home 00:06:42.220 --> 00:06:45.279 Except for those whom the husband approves of 00:06:45.279 --> 00:06:48.279 The Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:06:48.279 --> 00:06:53.279 It is not permissible for a woman to fast while her husband is a witness without his permission 00:06:53.279 --> 00:06:57.279 Do not enter his house without his permission 00:06:57.279 --> 00:06:59.470 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 00:06:59.470 --> 00:07:02.470 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 00:07:02.470 --> 00:07:05.470 Indeed, you have a right over your women 00:07:05.470 --> 00:07:08.470 And your women have a right over you 00:07:08.470 --> 00:07:11.470 As for your rights over your women? 00:07:11.470 --> 00:07:14.470 Let not those whom you hate enter your beds 00:07:14.470 --> 00:07:18.470 He does not allow anyone you hate into your homes 00:07:18.470 --> 00:07:20.470 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 00:07:20.470 --> 00:07:26.759 This hadith indicates the difference in the attitude towards people between the spouses 00:07:26.759 --> 00:07:31.759 So that this difference does not affect the relationship between the spouses 00:07:31.759 --> 00:07:35.759 The woman was ordered to keep away the people she loved 00:07:35.759 --> 00:07:39.759 The husband does not love them from the marital home 00:07:39.759 --> 00:07:41.759 They do not enter the house 00:07:41.759 --> 00:07:44.759 They do not approach the family 00:07:44.759 --> 00:07:47.759 Protection for this family from problems 00:07:47.759 --> 00:07:51.889 If this etiquette is to protect the family 00:07:51.889 --> 00:07:55.889 A woman does not allow anyone whom her husband hates to enter her home 00:07:55.889 --> 00:08:00.889 How can we bring into our hearts those whom God Almighty hates? 00:08:00.889 --> 00:08:04.889 Or those who are hostile to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:04.889 --> 00:08:06.889 And they mock his Sunnah 00:08:06.889 --> 00:08:11.889 Or they challenge the honor of his wives, mothers of believers 00:08:11.889 --> 00:08:17.920 Do we not love those whom the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, loves? 00:08:17.920 --> 00:08:21.180 Let us love Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:08:21.180 --> 00:08:24.180 We name our daughters after her 00:08:24.180 --> 00:08:26.180 And we defend it 00:08:26.180 --> 00:08:29.180 We spread her biography among people 00:08:29.180 --> 00:08:36.179 Be a role model for every woman who loves God and His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:36.179 --> 00:08:40.620 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:08:40.620 --> 00:08:43.620 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 00:08:43.620 --> 00:08:50.570 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her