Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her
O Aisha, love him, for I love him
Agreement between spouses on family-related issues
It helps them to walk through life without problems
One of these issues is the relationship with individuals related to the family
This relationship may lead to increased income for the family
It may lead to strong emotional attachment
Of love and affection on one side of the family
It will be visible to him
If compatibility between the spouses does not occur on this character
Jealousy often arises between spouses
Problems occur or are created without explaining the real reason
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was careful in raising his family
To treat this problem before it occurs
He instructed women in particular on etiquette that prevents such a problem from occurring
Because we are talking about the friend, the friend’s daughter
Which the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, raised on his own
We will mention the situations she went through
It contains the teachings of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to her or to others
In our topic in this article
The first position is related to love for the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
By Osama bin Zaid, may God be pleased with them both
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, stated this in many instances
With his love for Osama, he announced it to the people
On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar, may God be pleased with them both
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, sent a mission
Osama bin Zaid commanded them
So the people challenged his emirate
Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, stood up and said
If you challenge his leadership
You were challenging his father's emirate before
And I swear to God that he is the creator of the emirate
Even if it is for the people I love most
This is for the most beloved of people after him
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, announces to everyone
He loves Osama bin Zaid
Osama is from outside the family of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
How did the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, raise his family with his love?
We mentioned it before
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, takes advantage of life’s situations
In raising his family and the companions around him
May God Almighty be pleased with them all
One of these situations
What Aisha, may God be pleased with her, narrated
Where she said
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, wanted to expel poisonous mucus
Aisha said
Let me be the one who does it
He said
Oh Aisha, love him
I love him
Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi
The agreement between spouses to love a young child from outside the family
It prevents harm from being caused to it by any party
Especially if this child is from another wife of the husband
A rational woman loves her husband’s children in order to gain his love
He loves those he loves
It may be the other way around
So education is for the children
To be compatible with their father in those who love them
This is the second position
What Aisha, may God be pleased with her, narrates, says:
He sent the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Fatima, daughter of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
To the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
So I asked permission for him while he lay with me in my bed
So he gave her permission
She said, O Messenger of God
Your husbands sent me to you
He asks you to do justice to the daughter of Abu Quhafa
I am silent
And she said
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to her
Any structure
Don't you like what I like?
She said yes
He said
So love this one
She said
Fatima stood up when she heard that from the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
So I returned to the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
So she told them what she said
And what the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to her
So they told her
We don't think you've done anything for us
So return to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace
So tell him
Your wives are asking you for justice regarding the daughter of Abu Quhafa
Fatima said
By God, I will never talk to him about it
Narrated by Muslim
The saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his daughter Fatima
Any structure
Don't you like what I like?
It is enough to be said to every Muslim girl
If the daughter wants to be righteous towards her father
Applying the word of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, is a process
It is enough to make a girl’s heart free of hatred, malice and malice
He protects her tongue from backbiting and gossiping
It is enough to prevent problems between sons and stepmothers
Among the etiquettes that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided the wife to
To avoid running into such problems
Based on the difference in attitude towards people
The wife should not allow anyone to enter the marital home
Except for those whom the husband approves of
The Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
It is not permissible for a woman to fast while her husband is a witness without his permission
Do not enter his house without his permission
Narrated by Al-Bukhari
He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said
Indeed, you have a right over your women
And your women have a right over you
As for your rights over your women?
Let not those whom you hate enter your beds
He does not allow anyone you hate into your homes
Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi
This hadith indicates the difference in the attitude towards people between the spouses
So that this difference does not affect the relationship between the spouses
The woman was ordered to keep away the people she loved
The husband does not love them from the marital home
They do not enter the house
They do not approach the family
Protection for this family from problems
If this etiquette is to protect the family
A woman does not allow anyone whom her husband hates to enter her home
How can we bring into our hearts those whom God Almighty hates?
Or those who are hostile to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
And they mock his Sunnah
Or they challenge the honor of his wives, mothers of believers
Do we not love those whom the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, loves?
Let us love Aisha, may God be pleased with her
We name our daughters after her
And we defend it
We spread her biography among people
Be a role model for every woman who loves God and His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her