1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:11,300 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 2 00:00:11,300 --> 00:00:16,690 O Aisha, love him, for I love him 3 00:00:16,690 --> 00:00:24,660 Agreement between spouses on family-related issues 4 00:00:24,660 --> 00:00:28,660 It helps them to walk through life without problems 5 00:00:28,660 --> 00:00:34,750 One of these issues is the relationship with individuals related to the family 6 00:00:34,750 --> 00:00:39,750 This relationship may lead to increased income for the family 7 00:00:39,750 --> 00:00:42,750 It may lead to strong emotional attachment 8 00:00:42,750 --> 00:00:47,750 Of love and affection on one side of the family 9 00:00:47,750 --> 00:00:49,750 It will be visible to him 10 00:00:49,750 --> 00:00:54,979 If compatibility between the spouses does not occur on this character 11 00:00:54,979 --> 00:00:57,979 Jealousy often arises between spouses 12 00:00:57,979 --> 00:01:03,979 Problems occur or are created without explaining the real reason 13 00:01:03,979 --> 00:01:10,329 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was careful in raising his family 14 00:01:10,329 --> 00:01:14,329 To treat this problem before it occurs 15 00:01:14,329 --> 00:01:21,329 He instructed women in particular on etiquette that prevents such a problem from occurring 16 00:01:21,329 --> 00:01:25,359 Because we are talking about the friend, the friend’s daughter 17 00:01:25,359 --> 00:01:30,359 Which the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, raised on his own 18 00:01:30,359 --> 00:01:33,359 We will mention the situations she went through 19 00:01:33,359 --> 00:01:38,359 It contains the teachings of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to her or to others 20 00:01:38,359 --> 00:01:41,359 In our topic in this article 21 00:01:41,359 --> 00:01:47,519 The first position is related to love for the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 22 00:01:47,519 --> 00:01:51,519 By Osama bin Zaid, may God be pleased with them both 23 00:01:51,519 --> 00:01:56,519 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, stated this in many instances 24 00:01:56,519 --> 00:02:00,519 With his love for Osama, he announced it to the people 25 00:02:00,519 --> 00:02:04,519 On the authority of Abdullah bin Omar, may God be pleased with them both 26 00:02:04,519 --> 00:02:09,520 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, sent a mission 27 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:12,520 Osama bin Zaid commanded them 28 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:15,520 So the people challenged his emirate 29 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:19,520 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, stood up and said 30 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:22,520 If you challenge his leadership 31 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:26,520 You were challenging his father's emirate before 32 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:30,520 And I swear to God that he is the creator of the emirate 33 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:34,520 Even if it is for the people I love most 34 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:38,520 This is for the most beloved of people after him 35 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:40,780 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 36 00:02:40,780 --> 00:02:44,780 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, announces to everyone 37 00:02:44,780 --> 00:02:47,780 He loves Osama bin Zaid 38 00:02:47,780 --> 00:02:52,780 Osama is from outside the family of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 39 00:02:52,780 --> 00:02:57,780 How did the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, raise his family with his love? 40 00:02:57,780 --> 00:02:59,780 We mentioned it before 41 00:02:59,780 --> 00:03:04,780 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, takes advantage of life’s situations 42 00:03:04,780 --> 00:03:08,780 In raising his family and the companions around him 43 00:03:08,780 --> 00:03:12,780 May God Almighty be pleased with them all 44 00:03:12,780 --> 00:03:15,000 One of these situations 45 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:18,000 What Aisha, may God be pleased with her, narrated 46 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,000 Where she said 47 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:25,060 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, wanted to expel poisonous mucus 48 00:03:25,060 --> 00:03:27,060 Aisha said 49 00:03:27,060 --> 00:03:31,060 Let me be the one who does it 50 00:03:31,060 --> 00:03:32,060 He said 51 00:03:32,060 --> 00:03:35,060 Oh Aisha, love him 52 00:03:35,060 --> 00:03:37,060 I love him 53 00:03:37,060 --> 00:03:39,419 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 54 00:03:39,419 --> 00:03:45,419 The agreement between spouses to love a young child from outside the family 55 00:03:45,419 --> 00:03:49,419 It prevents harm from being caused to it by any party 56 00:03:49,419 --> 00:03:53,419 Especially if this child is from another wife of the husband 57 00:03:53,419 --> 00:03:59,419 A rational woman loves her husband’s children in order to gain his love 58 00:03:59,419 --> 00:04:02,419 He loves those he loves 59 00:04:02,419 --> 00:04:04,479 It may be the other way around 60 00:04:04,479 --> 00:04:07,479 So education is for the children 61 00:04:07,479 --> 00:04:10,479 To be compatible with their father in those who love them 62 00:04:10,479 --> 00:04:12,479 This is the second position 63 00:04:12,479 --> 00:04:17,480 What Aisha, may God be pleased with her, narrates, says: 64 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:21,480 He sent the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 65 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:25,480 Fatima, daughter of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 66 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:29,480 To the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 67 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:34,509 So I asked permission for him while he lay with me in my bed 68 00:04:34,509 --> 00:04:36,509 So he gave her permission 69 00:04:36,509 --> 00:04:38,509 She said, O Messenger of God 70 00:04:38,509 --> 00:04:41,509 Your husbands sent me to you 71 00:04:41,509 --> 00:04:44,509 He asks you to do justice to the daughter of Abu Quhafa 72 00:04:44,509 --> 00:04:46,509 I am silent 73 00:04:46,509 --> 00:04:48,509 And she said 74 00:04:48,509 --> 00:04:52,509 The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to her 75 00:04:52,509 --> 00:04:54,509 Any structure 76 00:04:54,509 --> 00:04:56,509 Don't you like what I like? 77 00:04:56,509 --> 00:04:58,509 She said yes 78 00:04:58,509 --> 00:04:59,509 He said 79 00:04:59,509 --> 00:05:01,540 So love this one 80 00:05:01,540 --> 00:05:03,540 She said 81 00:05:03,540 --> 00:05:09,699 Fatima stood up when she heard that from the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 82 00:05:09,699 --> 00:05:13,699 So I returned to the wives of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 83 00:05:13,699 --> 00:05:16,699 So she told them what she said 84 00:05:16,699 --> 00:05:20,699 And what the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said to her 85 00:05:20,699 --> 00:05:22,699 So they told her 86 00:05:22,699 --> 00:05:25,699 We don't think you've done anything for us 87 00:05:25,699 --> 00:05:29,699 So return to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 88 00:05:29,699 --> 00:05:31,699 So tell him 89 00:05:31,699 --> 00:05:35,699 Your wives are asking you for justice regarding the daughter of Abu Quhafa 90 00:05:35,699 --> 00:05:37,699 Fatima said 91 00:05:37,699 --> 00:05:41,699 By God, I will never talk to him about it 92 00:05:41,699 --> 00:05:43,959 Narrated by Muslim 93 00:05:43,959 --> 00:05:48,959 The saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, to his daughter Fatima 94 00:05:48,959 --> 00:05:49,959 Any structure 95 00:05:49,959 --> 00:05:52,959 Don't you like what I like? 96 00:05:52,959 --> 00:05:57,959 It is enough to be said to every Muslim girl 97 00:05:57,959 --> 00:06:02,959 If the daughter wants to be righteous towards her father 98 00:06:02,959 --> 00:06:08,089 Applying the word of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, is a process 99 00:06:08,089 --> 00:06:14,089 It is enough to make a girl’s heart free of hatred, malice and malice 100 00:06:14,089 --> 00:06:18,089 He protects her tongue from backbiting and gossiping 101 00:06:18,089 --> 00:06:23,089 It is enough to prevent problems between sons and stepmothers 102 00:06:23,089 --> 00:06:29,220 Among the etiquettes that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, guided the wife to 103 00:06:29,220 --> 00:06:33,220 To avoid running into such problems 104 00:06:33,220 --> 00:06:37,220 Based on the difference in attitude towards people 105 00:06:37,220 --> 00:06:42,220 The wife should not allow anyone to enter the marital home 106 00:06:42,220 --> 00:06:45,279 Except for those whom the husband approves of 107 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:48,279 The Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 108 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:53,279 It is not permissible for a woman to fast while her husband is a witness without his permission 109 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:57,279 Do not enter his house without his permission 110 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:59,470 Narrated by Al-Bukhari 111 00:06:59,470 --> 00:07:02,470 He, may God bless him and grant him peace, said 112 00:07:02,470 --> 00:07:05,470 Indeed, you have a right over your women 113 00:07:05,470 --> 00:07:08,470 And your women have a right over you 114 00:07:08,470 --> 00:07:11,470 As for your rights over your women? 115 00:07:11,470 --> 00:07:14,470 Let not those whom you hate enter your beds 116 00:07:14,470 --> 00:07:18,470 He does not allow anyone you hate into your homes 117 00:07:18,470 --> 00:07:20,470 Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi 118 00:07:20,470 --> 00:07:26,759 This hadith indicates the difference in the attitude towards people between the spouses 119 00:07:26,759 --> 00:07:31,759 So that this difference does not affect the relationship between the spouses 120 00:07:31,759 --> 00:07:35,759 The woman was ordered to keep away the people she loved 121 00:07:35,759 --> 00:07:39,759 The husband does not love them from the marital home 122 00:07:39,759 --> 00:07:41,759 They do not enter the house 123 00:07:41,759 --> 00:07:44,759 They do not approach the family 124 00:07:44,759 --> 00:07:47,759 Protection for this family from problems 125 00:07:47,759 --> 00:07:51,889 If this etiquette is to protect the family 126 00:07:51,889 --> 00:07:55,889 A woman does not allow anyone whom her husband hates to enter her home 127 00:07:55,889 --> 00:08:00,889 How can we bring into our hearts those whom God Almighty hates? 128 00:08:00,889 --> 00:08:04,889 Or those who are hostile to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 129 00:08:04,889 --> 00:08:06,889 And they mock his Sunnah 130 00:08:06,889 --> 00:08:11,889 Or they challenge the honor of his wives, mothers of believers 131 00:08:11,889 --> 00:08:17,920 Do we not love those whom the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, loves? 132 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:21,180 Let us love Aisha, may God be pleased with her 133 00:08:21,180 --> 00:08:24,180 We name our daughters after her 134 00:08:24,180 --> 00:08:26,180 And we defend it 135 00:08:26,180 --> 00:08:29,180 We spread her biography among people 136 00:08:29,180 --> 00:08:36,179 Be a role model for every woman who loves God and His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 137 00:08:36,179 --> 00:08:40,620 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 138 00:08:40,620 --> 00:08:43,620 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 139 00:08:43,620 --> 00:08:50,570 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her