WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:15.529 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her. Aisha, please allow me to worship my Lord 00:00:15.529 --> 00:00:22.089 Education by example is one of the most important methods of education 00:00:22.089 --> 00:00:30.179 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was the greatest role model for his family and for Muslims in general 00:00:30.179 --> 00:00:35.179 Therefore, God Almighty commanded us to punish him, saying: 00:00:35.179 --> 00:00:52.179 You have in the Messenger of God a good example for those who hope in God and the Last Day and remember God often 00:00:52.179 --> 00:01:00.380 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, is the most God-fearing of this nation and the one who fears Him most, Glory be to Him 00:01:01.380 --> 00:01:06.379 His worship showed this fear and piety 00:01:06.379 --> 00:01:17.379 Whoever wants to worship God Almighty will not find a better way than the way of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, in worshiping his Lord. 00:01:17.379 --> 00:01:26.439 The worship of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was not limited to one of the seasons of worship, such as Ramadan, for example 00:01:26.439 --> 00:01:31.439 Rather, his worship of God is permanent and in all his circumstances 00:01:31.439 --> 00:01:42.540 If a man wants to raise his family to obey God, he will find no better way than to be obedient to God in secret and knowledge. 00:01:42.540 --> 00:01:47.540 He is a good role model, so his actions precede his words 00:01:47.540 --> 00:01:55.540 A man should not think that the eyes of his family, including his wife and children, have overlooked him 00:01:55.540 --> 00:02:03.540 She sees him and watches him while he does not feel it, and the effect of this on them appears, even after a while 00:02:03.540 --> 00:02:12.759 The story of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, with his wife Aisha is an example of these beautiful examples 00:02:12.759 --> 00:02:20.759 In which it appears that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, turned to worship and left a warm bed 00:02:20.759 --> 00:02:27.759 It also shows that his wife Aisha, may God be pleased with her, monitored him in his worship of his Lord 00:02:27.759 --> 00:02:31.759 Which influenced her later life 00:02:31.759 --> 00:02:34.919 Ata bin Abi Rabah says 00:02:34.919 --> 00:02:42.919 I entered with Abdullah bin Omar and Ubaid bin Omair to see Aisha, may God be pleased with her, while she was in her room 00:02:43.919 --> 00:02:45.919 She said: Who are these people? 00:02:45.919 --> 00:02:50.919 We said Abdullah bin Omar and Ubaid bin Omair 00:02:50.919 --> 00:02:58.919 She said, O Ubaid bin Umair, you are, as the first one said, Zaragba, and you are increasing in love 00:02:58.919 --> 00:03:03.919 Ibn Omar said, “Let us stop this falsehood of yours.” 00:03:03.919 --> 00:03:10.050 Tell us the most amazing thing you saw from the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:03:10.050 --> 00:03:13.050 She cried intensely 00:03:13.050 --> 00:03:17.050 Then she said everything about him was a wonder 00:03:17.050 --> 00:03:21.050 He came to me one night as I entered my bed 00:03:21.050 --> 00:03:25.050 He entered with me until his skin stuck to my skin 00:03:25.050 --> 00:03:32.050 Then he said, O Aisha, permit me to worship my Lord Almighty 00:03:32.050 --> 00:03:35.050 She said: I said, O Messenger of God 00:03:35.050 --> 00:03:39.050 I love your closeness and your love 00:03:39.050 --> 00:03:43.180 She said, so he got up and went to his house 00:03:43.180 --> 00:03:47.180 He performed ablution and then read the Qur’an 00:03:47.180 --> 00:03:53.180 Then he cried until I thought his tears had reached his limit 00:03:53.180 --> 00:04:00.180 Then he sat down and prayed and cried until I thought his tears had reached his throat 00:04:00.180 --> 00:04:06.210 Then he lay on his right and placed his right hand under his right cheek 00:04:06.210 --> 00:04:12.210 Then he cried until I thought his tears had reached the ground 00:04:12.210 --> 00:04:17.430 Then Bilal came to him after giving the call to prayer and greeted him 00:04:17.430 --> 00:04:21.430 When he saw him crying, he said, O Messenger of God 00:04:21.430 --> 00:04:27.430 You cry, and God has forgiven you for your previous and future sins 00:04:27.430 --> 00:04:33.430 He said: Why should I not cry when it was revealed to me tonight? 00:04:33.430 --> 00:04:38.430 In the creation of the heavens and the earth and the difference between night and day 00:04:38.430 --> 00:04:44.430 The verse: Woe to whoever reads it and then does not think about it 00:04:44.430 --> 00:04:49.500 Woe to you, Bilal, for not being a grateful servant 00:04:49.500 --> 00:04:53.589 Narrated by Al-Tahawi in Mushkil Al-Athar 00:04:54.589 --> 00:05:00.009 We notice the great literature of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:00.009 --> 00:05:04.009 In seeking permission from his wife Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:05:04.009 --> 00:05:08.009 To pray and worship God 00:05:08.009 --> 00:05:13.069 This request for permission comes because it is Aisha's time 00:05:13.069 --> 00:05:18.069 He is designated for her from his day and night, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:18.069 --> 00:05:20.069 With the rest of his wives 00:05:20.069 --> 00:05:23.069 If she misses that night 00:05:23.069 --> 00:05:28.069 She will wait until her night comes in ten days 00:05:28.069 --> 00:05:32.139 One of his manners was to be strict, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:32.139 --> 00:05:35.139 To ask her permission to leave her bed 00:05:35.139 --> 00:05:38.230 Devote yourself to worshiping your Lord 00:05:38.230 --> 00:05:40.230 This is a lesson for the man 00:05:40.230 --> 00:05:45.230 In the etiquette of dealing with the wife and the times he allocates to her 00:05:45.230 --> 00:05:50.230 These are not times for emergency appointments with people 00:05:50.230 --> 00:05:53.230 Or his phone calls 00:05:53.230 --> 00:05:56.230 Which does not find a place in his schedule 00:05:56.230 --> 00:06:00.230 Unless he asks her permission, and she permits him with love 00:06:00.230 --> 00:06:03.230 As Aisha, may God be pleased with her, did 00:06:03.230 --> 00:06:06.230 She will not allow him love 00:06:06.230 --> 00:06:09.230 Unless this action on his part is rare 00:06:09.230 --> 00:06:13.300 And his respect for her times is often 00:06:13.300 --> 00:06:16.300 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:16.300 --> 00:06:19.300 It gives us another lesson in the type of work 00:06:19.300 --> 00:06:23.300 The one who wastes his family's time for his sake 00:06:23.300 --> 00:06:25.300 It is worship to God 00:06:25.300 --> 00:06:29.300 Worshiping God is constant and at all times 00:06:29.300 --> 00:06:32.300 But the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:06:32.300 --> 00:06:36.300 We learned that our Lord has a right over us 00:06:36.300 --> 00:06:39.300 And our husband is truly upon us 00:06:39.300 --> 00:06:42.300 And our guest is truly upon us 00:06:42.300 --> 00:06:45.300 We are commanded to give everyone his right 00:06:45.300 --> 00:06:48.300 This is all worship to God 00:06:48.300 --> 00:06:51.329 We also notice Aisha's selflessness 00:06:51.329 --> 00:06:54.329 Because the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, loves him 00:06:54.329 --> 00:06:56.329 From standing up to worship 00:06:56.329 --> 00:06:59.329 Because she loves being close to him 00:06:59.329 --> 00:07:01.329 And enjoy it 00:07:01.329 --> 00:07:03.329 This is the altruism of Aisha 00:07:03.329 --> 00:07:06.329 It stems from what she saw as a balance 00:07:06.329 --> 00:07:09.329 In the life of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:09.329 --> 00:07:12.329 With her and near her 00:07:12.329 --> 00:07:15.329 When he asked her permission for some of her time 00:07:15.329 --> 00:07:17.329 I gave him permission 00:07:17.329 --> 00:07:20.329 This happens to every couple 00:07:20.329 --> 00:07:23.420 He achieved balance with his wife 00:07:23.420 --> 00:07:25.420 As we see from the story 00:07:25.420 --> 00:07:28.420 The accuracy of Aisha’s monitoring, may God be pleased with her 00:07:28.420 --> 00:07:31.420 To worship the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:31.420 --> 00:07:34.420 She did not sleep and leave him 00:07:34.420 --> 00:07:36.420 He worships God 00:07:36.420 --> 00:07:39.420 Rather, I observed him in how he was worshiped 00:07:39.420 --> 00:07:42.420 This observation affected her life 00:07:42.420 --> 00:07:45.420 Later in her increased worship 00:07:45.420 --> 00:07:48.420 After the death of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:48.420 --> 00:07:51.649 That's an eloquent lesson 00:07:51.649 --> 00:07:54.649 Which we all need 00:07:54.649 --> 00:07:57.649 From this prophetic story 00:07:57.649 --> 00:08:00.649 With our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:08:00.649 --> 00:08:03.649 It is that etiquette that is derived 00:08:03.649 --> 00:08:06.649 From the biography of our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:06.649 --> 00:08:09.649 And follow him in it 00:08:09.649 --> 00:08:12.649 By worshiping in rituals 00:08:12.649 --> 00:08:15.649 Without the social interaction aspect 00:08:15.649 --> 00:08:18.649 With wife and children 00:08:18.649 --> 00:08:21.649 Asking such a story 00:08:21.649 --> 00:08:24.649 As it is in the statement of crying 00:08:24.649 --> 00:08:27.649 Of fear of God and worship of God 00:08:27.649 --> 00:08:30.649 At night, thank you for the blessings 00:08:30.649 --> 00:08:33.649 This also applies to the statement of marital rights 00:08:33.649 --> 00:08:36.649 And etiquette of dealing with the wife 00:08:37.649 --> 00:08:40.649 How Aisha described her condition 00:08:40.649 --> 00:08:43.649 With the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying it 00:08:43.649 --> 00:08:46.649 He stuck his skin to my skin 00:08:46.649 --> 00:08:49.649 She did not mention it in vain 00:08:49.649 --> 00:08:52.649 But it is an important part of the story 00:08:52.649 --> 00:08:55.649 It has its meaning 00:08:55.649 --> 00:08:58.649 It is also part of the biography of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:58.649 --> 00:09:02.100 With his wives 00:09:02.100 --> 00:09:05.100 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:09:05.100 --> 00:09:10.460 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 00:09:10.460 --> 00:09:13.460 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her