1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:15,529 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her. Aisha, please allow me to worship my Lord 2 00:00:15,529 --> 00:00:22,089 Education by example is one of the most important methods of education 3 00:00:22,089 --> 00:00:30,179 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was the greatest role model for his family and for Muslims in general 4 00:00:30,179 --> 00:00:35,179 Therefore, God Almighty commanded us to punish him, saying: 5 00:00:35,179 --> 00:00:52,179 You have in the Messenger of God a good example for those who hope in God and the Last Day and remember God often 6 00:00:52,179 --> 00:01:00,380 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, is the most God-fearing of this nation and the one who fears Him most, Glory be to Him 7 00:01:01,380 --> 00:01:06,379 His worship showed this fear and piety 8 00:01:06,379 --> 00:01:17,379 Whoever wants to worship God Almighty will not find a better way than the way of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, in worshiping his Lord. 9 00:01:17,379 --> 00:01:26,439 The worship of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was not limited to one of the seasons of worship, such as Ramadan, for example 10 00:01:26,439 --> 00:01:31,439 Rather, his worship of God is permanent and in all his circumstances 11 00:01:31,439 --> 00:01:42,540 If a man wants to raise his family to obey God, he will find no better way than to be obedient to God in secret and knowledge. 12 00:01:42,540 --> 00:01:47,540 He is a good role model, so his actions precede his words 13 00:01:47,540 --> 00:01:55,540 A man should not think that the eyes of his family, including his wife and children, have overlooked him 14 00:01:55,540 --> 00:02:03,540 She sees him and watches him while he does not feel it, and the effect of this on them appears, even after a while 15 00:02:03,540 --> 00:02:12,759 The story of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, with his wife Aisha is an example of these beautiful examples 16 00:02:12,759 --> 00:02:20,759 In which it appears that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, turned to worship and left a warm bed 17 00:02:20,759 --> 00:02:27,759 It also shows that his wife Aisha, may God be pleased with her, monitored him in his worship of his Lord 18 00:02:27,759 --> 00:02:31,759 Which influenced her later life 19 00:02:31,759 --> 00:02:34,919 Ata bin Abi Rabah says 20 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:42,919 I entered with Abdullah bin Omar and Ubaid bin Omair to see Aisha, may God be pleased with her, while she was in her room 21 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:45,919 She said: Who are these people? 22 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:50,919 We said Abdullah bin Omar and Ubaid bin Omair 23 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:58,919 She said, O Ubaid bin Umair, you are, as the first one said, Zaragba, and you are increasing in love 24 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:03,919 Ibn Omar said, “Let us stop this falsehood of yours.” 25 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:10,050 Tell us the most amazing thing you saw from the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace 26 00:03:10,050 --> 00:03:13,050 She cried intensely 27 00:03:13,050 --> 00:03:17,050 Then she said everything about him was a wonder 28 00:03:17,050 --> 00:03:21,050 He came to me one night as I entered my bed 29 00:03:21,050 --> 00:03:25,050 He entered with me until his skin stuck to my skin 30 00:03:25,050 --> 00:03:32,050 Then he said, O Aisha, permit me to worship my Lord Almighty 31 00:03:32,050 --> 00:03:35,050 She said: I said, O Messenger of God 32 00:03:35,050 --> 00:03:39,050 I love your closeness and your love 33 00:03:39,050 --> 00:03:43,180 She said, so he got up and went to his house 34 00:03:43,180 --> 00:03:47,180 He performed ablution and then read the Qur’an 35 00:03:47,180 --> 00:03:53,180 Then he cried until I thought his tears had reached his limit 36 00:03:53,180 --> 00:04:00,180 Then he sat down and prayed and cried until I thought his tears had reached his throat 37 00:04:00,180 --> 00:04:06,210 Then he lay on his right and placed his right hand under his right cheek 38 00:04:06,210 --> 00:04:12,210 Then he cried until I thought his tears had reached the ground 39 00:04:12,210 --> 00:04:17,430 Then Bilal came to him after giving the call to prayer and greeted him 40 00:04:17,430 --> 00:04:21,430 When he saw him crying, he said, O Messenger of God 41 00:04:21,430 --> 00:04:27,430 You cry, and God has forgiven you for your previous and future sins 42 00:04:27,430 --> 00:04:33,430 He said: Why should I not cry when it was revealed to me tonight? 43 00:04:33,430 --> 00:04:38,430 In the creation of the heavens and the earth and the difference between night and day 44 00:04:38,430 --> 00:04:44,430 The verse: Woe to whoever reads it and then does not think about it 45 00:04:44,430 --> 00:04:49,500 Woe to you, Bilal, for not being a grateful servant 46 00:04:49,500 --> 00:04:53,589 Narrated by Al-Tahawi in Mushkil Al-Athar 47 00:04:54,589 --> 00:05:00,009 We notice the great literature of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 48 00:05:00,009 --> 00:05:04,009 In seeking permission from his wife Aisha, may God be pleased with her 49 00:05:04,009 --> 00:05:08,009 To pray and worship God 50 00:05:08,009 --> 00:05:13,069 This request for permission comes because it is Aisha's time 51 00:05:13,069 --> 00:05:18,069 He is designated for her from his day and night, may God bless him and grant him peace 52 00:05:18,069 --> 00:05:20,069 With the rest of his wives 53 00:05:20,069 --> 00:05:23,069 If she misses that night 54 00:05:23,069 --> 00:05:28,069 She will wait until her night comes in ten days 55 00:05:28,069 --> 00:05:32,139 One of his manners was to be strict, may God bless him and grant him peace 56 00:05:32,139 --> 00:05:35,139 To ask her permission to leave her bed 57 00:05:35,139 --> 00:05:38,230 Devote yourself to worshiping your Lord 58 00:05:38,230 --> 00:05:40,230 This is a lesson for the man 59 00:05:40,230 --> 00:05:45,230 In the etiquette of dealing with the wife and the times he allocates to her 60 00:05:45,230 --> 00:05:50,230 These are not times for emergency appointments with people 61 00:05:50,230 --> 00:05:53,230 Or his phone calls 62 00:05:53,230 --> 00:05:56,230 Which does not find a place in his schedule 63 00:05:56,230 --> 00:06:00,230 Unless he asks her permission, and she permits him with love 64 00:06:00,230 --> 00:06:03,230 As Aisha, may God be pleased with her, did 65 00:06:03,230 --> 00:06:06,230 She will not allow him love 66 00:06:06,230 --> 00:06:09,230 Unless this action on his part is rare 67 00:06:09,230 --> 00:06:13,300 And his respect for her times is often 68 00:06:13,300 --> 00:06:16,300 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 69 00:06:16,300 --> 00:06:19,300 It gives us another lesson in the type of work 70 00:06:19,300 --> 00:06:23,300 The one who wastes his family's time for his sake 71 00:06:23,300 --> 00:06:25,300 It is worship to God 72 00:06:25,300 --> 00:06:29,300 Worshiping God is constant and at all times 73 00:06:29,300 --> 00:06:32,300 But the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 74 00:06:32,300 --> 00:06:36,300 We learned that our Lord has a right over us 75 00:06:36,300 --> 00:06:39,300 And our husband is truly upon us 76 00:06:39,300 --> 00:06:42,300 And our guest is truly upon us 77 00:06:42,300 --> 00:06:45,300 We are commanded to give everyone his right 78 00:06:45,300 --> 00:06:48,300 This is all worship to God 79 00:06:48,300 --> 00:06:51,329 We also notice Aisha's selflessness 80 00:06:51,329 --> 00:06:54,329 Because the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, loves him 81 00:06:54,329 --> 00:06:56,329 From standing up to worship 82 00:06:56,329 --> 00:06:59,329 Because she loves being close to him 83 00:06:59,329 --> 00:07:01,329 And enjoy it 84 00:07:01,329 --> 00:07:03,329 This is the altruism of Aisha 85 00:07:03,329 --> 00:07:06,329 It stems from what she saw as a balance 86 00:07:06,329 --> 00:07:09,329 In the life of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 87 00:07:09,329 --> 00:07:12,329 With her and near her 88 00:07:12,329 --> 00:07:15,329 When he asked her permission for some of her time 89 00:07:15,329 --> 00:07:17,329 I gave him permission 90 00:07:17,329 --> 00:07:20,329 This happens to every couple 91 00:07:20,329 --> 00:07:23,420 He achieved balance with his wife 92 00:07:23,420 --> 00:07:25,420 As we see from the story 93 00:07:25,420 --> 00:07:28,420 The accuracy of Aisha’s monitoring, may God be pleased with her 94 00:07:28,420 --> 00:07:31,420 To worship the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 95 00:07:31,420 --> 00:07:34,420 She did not sleep and leave him 96 00:07:34,420 --> 00:07:36,420 He worships God 97 00:07:36,420 --> 00:07:39,420 Rather, I observed him in how he was worshiped 98 00:07:39,420 --> 00:07:42,420 This observation affected her life 99 00:07:42,420 --> 00:07:45,420 Later in her increased worship 100 00:07:45,420 --> 00:07:48,420 After the death of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 101 00:07:48,420 --> 00:07:51,649 That's an eloquent lesson 102 00:07:51,649 --> 00:07:54,649 Which we all need 103 00:07:54,649 --> 00:07:57,649 From this prophetic story 104 00:07:57,649 --> 00:08:00,649 With our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 105 00:08:00,649 --> 00:08:03,649 It is that etiquette that is derived 106 00:08:03,649 --> 00:08:06,649 From the biography of our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace 107 00:08:06,649 --> 00:08:09,649 And follow him in it 108 00:08:09,649 --> 00:08:12,649 By worshiping in rituals 109 00:08:12,649 --> 00:08:15,649 Without the social interaction aspect 110 00:08:15,649 --> 00:08:18,649 With wife and children 111 00:08:18,649 --> 00:08:21,649 Asking such a story 112 00:08:21,649 --> 00:08:24,649 As it is in the statement of crying 113 00:08:24,649 --> 00:08:27,649 Of fear of God and worship of God 114 00:08:27,649 --> 00:08:30,649 At night, thank you for the blessings 115 00:08:30,649 --> 00:08:33,649 This also applies to the statement of marital rights 116 00:08:33,649 --> 00:08:36,649 And etiquette of dealing with the wife 117 00:08:37,649 --> 00:08:40,649 How Aisha described her condition 118 00:08:40,649 --> 00:08:43,649 With the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, saying it 119 00:08:43,649 --> 00:08:46,649 He stuck his skin to my skin 120 00:08:46,649 --> 00:08:49,649 She did not mention it in vain 121 00:08:49,649 --> 00:08:52,649 But it is an important part of the story 122 00:08:52,649 --> 00:08:55,649 It has its meaning 123 00:08:55,649 --> 00:08:58,649 It is also part of the biography of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 124 00:08:58,649 --> 00:09:02,100 With his wives 125 00:09:02,100 --> 00:09:05,100 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 126 00:09:05,100 --> 00:09:10,460 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 127 00:09:10,460 --> 00:09:13,460 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her