WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:06.000 The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him 00:00:06.000 --> 00:00:14.900 Women and hard work outside the home 00:00:14.900 --> 00:00:21.570 The two women had to leave their home to graze the sheep 00:00:21.570 --> 00:00:26.570 Because there is no man to do this task on their behalf 00:00:26.570 --> 00:00:33.570 The father, as they described him, is an old man who is not able to struggle with herding sheep 00:00:33.570 --> 00:00:35.570 There is no alternative to them 00:00:35.570 --> 00:00:40.570 So I went out out of necessity to graze, not out of love for working outside the home 00:00:40.570 --> 00:00:45.570 The evidence for this is that they are at the first opportunity to find an alternative 00:00:45.570 --> 00:00:50.570 One of them offered advice to her father by saying: 00:00:50.570 --> 00:00:56.570 O father, do you hire? The best person to hire is the strong and trustworthy 00:00:56.570 --> 00:00:59.570 Even if they like to work outside the home 00:00:59.570 --> 00:01:03.570 When I presented this proposal to their father 00:01:03.570 --> 00:01:06.599 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 00:01:06.599 --> 00:01:09.599 She said to her father, Father, you are renting 00:01:09.599 --> 00:01:11.599 That is, to herd these sheep 00:01:11.599 --> 00:01:16.980 The other proof is their common sense 00:01:16.980 --> 00:01:20.980 Women naturally tend to decide at home 00:01:20.980 --> 00:01:22.980 She doesn't bother with that 00:01:22.980 --> 00:01:26.980 This can be realized in her since childhood 00:01:26.980 --> 00:01:29.980 The child wants to leave the house 00:01:29.980 --> 00:01:33.980 Playing outside the house is more than the girl wants 00:01:33.980 --> 00:01:39.069 When the girl is ordered to stay at home and not go out 00:01:39.069 --> 00:01:41.069 Don't be upset about it 00:01:41.069 --> 00:01:46.069 Unlike the boy, he is upset by staying at home 00:01:46.069 --> 00:01:50.200 It is a call for women to leave their homes 00:01:50.200 --> 00:01:52.200 And denying her nature 00:01:52.200 --> 00:01:55.200 I first came out in the West 00:01:55.200 --> 00:01:57.200 It was the reason for that 00:01:58.200 --> 00:02:02.200 The man shirks his responsibilities towards the woman 00:02:02.200 --> 00:02:07.200 And the desire of the immoral people among them to enjoy women in all fields 00:02:07.200 --> 00:02:10.199 What resulted from this invitation? 00:02:10.199 --> 00:02:15.330 It has produced a painful reality that rational people do not disagree with 00:02:15.330 --> 00:02:19.419 Dr. Al-Sibai, may God have mercy on him, says 00:02:19.419 --> 00:02:23.419 It brings together all those who visited the West from the East 00:02:23.419 --> 00:02:25.419 Especially Arab Muslims 00:02:25.419 --> 00:02:30.419 However, women there are in a painful and unenviable situation 00:02:30.419 --> 00:02:33.520 I have visited Europe four times 00:02:33.520 --> 00:02:39.520 I did not suffer from anything as much as I did from the misery of the Western woman 00:02:39.520 --> 00:02:42.520 And vulgarity for the sake of a living 00:02:42.520 --> 00:02:46.520 Or her desire to be just like a man 00:02:46.520 --> 00:02:52.520 Western men have been unable to exploit women's weakness in this regard 00:02:53.520 --> 00:03:00.520 He exploited her to the utmost extent for the sake of his material benefits and sexual desires 00:03:00.520 --> 00:03:03.580 It has been confirmed for me after everything I have seen 00:03:03.580 --> 00:03:07.580 That Muslim women are what they are today 00:03:07.580 --> 00:03:12.580 He is happier and has a more honorable status than Western women 00:03:12.580 --> 00:03:19.319 It is not surprising then if we hear and read demands from women in the West 00:03:19.319 --> 00:03:22.319 The woman returns to her home 00:03:22.319 --> 00:03:25.319 Devoting herself to her children and husband 00:03:25.319 --> 00:03:28.319 To find her true self 00:03:28.319 --> 00:03:31.479 In this proposal proposed by one of them 00:03:31.479 --> 00:03:35.479 Third evidence of their desire to decide at home 00:03:35.479 --> 00:03:38.479 He left work tending to sheep 00:03:38.479 --> 00:03:43.479 This is not in harmony with their nature and the nature of their creation 00:03:43.479 --> 00:03:45.479 It is in her words 00:03:45.479 --> 00:03:49.479 The best person to hire is the strong and trustworthy 00:03:49.479 --> 00:03:52.509 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 00:03:52.509 --> 00:03:55.509 That is, Moses was the first to be hired 00:03:55.509 --> 00:03:58.509 It combines strength and honesty 00:03:58.509 --> 00:04:02.509 The best employee is the one who brings them together 00:04:02.509 --> 00:04:06.509 That is, the power and ability to do what he was hired to do 00:04:06.509 --> 00:04:09.509 And honesty in it is not betrayal 00:04:09.509 --> 00:04:13.180 The meaning here is strength 00:04:14.180 --> 00:04:17.180 She is the one who was lost in Sheikh Al-Kabir 00:04:17.180 --> 00:04:22.180 She was the one who made the girl propose this proposal to her father 00:04:22.180 --> 00:04:25.180 Because it is missing in women in general 00:04:25.180 --> 00:04:28.180 Women are naturally weak 00:04:28.180 --> 00:04:32.180 Evidenced by the words of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:32.180 --> 00:04:36.180 Oh God, I embarrass the rights of the weak 00:04:36.180 --> 00:04:38.180 Orphan and woman 00:04:38.180 --> 00:04:40.310 Narrated by Ibn Majah 00:04:40.310 --> 00:04:44.310 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, considered her weak 00:04:44.310 --> 00:04:47.310 He combined it with the orphan in the same capacity 00:04:47.310 --> 00:04:49.310 It is a characteristic of weakness 00:04:49.310 --> 00:04:53.589 If the woman is naturally weak 00:04:53.589 --> 00:04:57.589 It is unfair for her to be treated like a man 00:04:57.589 --> 00:05:00.589 Men are given hard work 00:05:00.589 --> 00:05:04.589 Implementation of CEDAW decisions 00:05:04.589 --> 00:05:06.689 And pictures of that 00:05:06.689 --> 00:05:09.689 Working hours imposed on women 00:05:09.689 --> 00:05:11.689 And start working hours 00:05:11.689 --> 00:05:15.689 They do not fit the nature and character of women 00:05:15.689 --> 00:05:18.689 And the main job assigned to it 00:05:18.689 --> 00:05:20.689 It is taking care of the family 00:05:20.689 --> 00:05:23.689 Of motherhood and custody 00:05:23.689 --> 00:05:26.750 Taking care of the husband, home, and others 00:05:26.750 --> 00:05:29.750 We find women getting up before dawn 00:05:29.750 --> 00:05:32.750 To prepare herself to go to work 00:05:32.750 --> 00:05:35.750 People stand in queues 00:05:35.750 --> 00:05:38.750 Waiting for public transportation 00:05:38.750 --> 00:05:43.750 You ride with them in a frightening crowd between men and women 00:05:43.750 --> 00:05:46.750 To get to work on time 00:05:46.750 --> 00:05:52.750 Then she gives her best energy and a bright face during the work period 00:05:52.750 --> 00:05:56.750 Which is usually eight hours straight 00:05:56.750 --> 00:06:02.750 To return once again to the cycle of waiting for crowded transportation 00:06:02.750 --> 00:06:05.750 She arrived home exhausted and tired 00:06:06.750 --> 00:06:11.750 She throws herself on her bed to get some rest 00:06:11.750 --> 00:06:15.750 Or throw herself into the work that awaits her at home 00:06:15.750 --> 00:06:19.750 To increase the burden of this exhausted body 00:06:19.750 --> 00:06:23.850 What is expected from such a working woman? 00:06:23.850 --> 00:06:28.850 To provide her children with love, tenderness and a smile 00:06:28.850 --> 00:06:31.850 Before they leave home to school 00:06:31.850 --> 00:06:36.850 What do we expect from her to provide them with good reception? 00:06:36.850 --> 00:06:40.850 They will have good food and housing if they return home 00:06:40.850 --> 00:06:46.850 After a stressful day of school, he did not respect their innocent childhood 00:06:46.850 --> 00:06:50.850 What do we expect her to offer to her married life? 00:06:50.850 --> 00:06:57.850 Who cares for this husband who is looking for a place to shelter from the hardships of this world? 00:06:59.170 --> 00:07:02.170 Islam does not prohibit women from working 00:07:02.170 --> 00:07:05.170 But controls were put in place for him 00:07:05.170 --> 00:07:09.170 Whoever fulfills these controls is permitted to work 00:07:09.170 --> 00:07:12.170 Whoever violates these controls 00:07:12.170 --> 00:07:15.170 Work has become haram 00:07:15.170 --> 00:07:18.170 Or in the circle of evil for women 00:07:18.170 --> 00:07:21.300 Firstly, these controls 00:07:21.300 --> 00:07:24.300 The work must be permissible 00:07:24.300 --> 00:07:27.300 Singing and dancing are forbidden activities 00:07:27.300 --> 00:07:31.300 Connecting poetry and namas are forbidden acts 00:07:31.300 --> 00:07:34.300 Prostitution is a forbidden business 00:07:34.300 --> 00:07:41.519 Secondly, the woman must be disciplined by the legal controls for leaving the house 00:07:41.519 --> 00:07:45.519 Such as not going out wearing perfume or adornment 00:07:45.519 --> 00:07:49.620 Third, do not crowd with men 00:07:49.620 --> 00:07:54.620 It is not permissible for a woman to work in mixed jobs 00:07:54.620 --> 00:07:59.620 Because it exposes women to many legal violations 00:07:59.620 --> 00:08:03.620 Including wearing a cover in her clothing 00:08:03.620 --> 00:08:07.620 He broke the barrier of modesty between her and the man 00:08:07.620 --> 00:08:14.810 Her chastity is affected and causes the excitement of men’s lust and other things 00:08:14.810 --> 00:08:19.810 Fourthly, her work should not lead to negligence in the husband’s rights 00:08:19.810 --> 00:08:24.810 Or the loss of children or negligence in taking care of the home 00:08:24.810 --> 00:08:30.870 Fifthly, her work should not lead to the company of immoral women 00:08:30.870 --> 00:08:32.870 The friend will love it 00:08:32.870 --> 00:08:37.940 Sixthly, the work should not harm it 00:08:37.940 --> 00:08:41.940 In the hadith, there is no harm or harm 00:08:41.940 --> 00:08:43.940 Narrated by Ibn Majah 00:08:43.940 --> 00:08:49.100 Seventh, the work should not lead to the loss of her religion 00:08:49.100 --> 00:08:52.190 It is one of the most important controls 00:08:52.190 --> 00:08:57.190 Eighthly, work should not kill her femininity 00:08:57.190 --> 00:09:02.379 And other legal controls for women’s work 00:09:02.379 --> 00:09:07.379 Here's this late confession from the American actress 00:09:07.379 --> 00:09:12.379 Barbara Sriand in her latest newspaper article 00:09:12.379 --> 00:09:14.379 Where she said 00:09:14.379 --> 00:09:19.379 I'm starting to realize that I'm missing many things 00:09:19.379 --> 00:09:23.379 I cared too much about the artistic life 00:09:23.379 --> 00:09:27.379 I forgot my life as a woman and as a human being 00:09:27.379 --> 00:09:32.379 Which today makes me envy women who have enough time 00:09:32.379 --> 00:09:36.379 To take care of their husbands and children 00:09:36.379 --> 00:09:37.379 And the truth 00:09:37.379 --> 00:09:43.379 Success and fame are meaningless in the absence of a normal family life 00:09:43.379 --> 00:09:47.529 Where a woman feels like a woman 00:09:47.529 --> 00:09:50.529 Did you realize the blessing of decision-making at home? 00:09:50.529 --> 00:09:53.529 Like a queen cared for by a man 00:09:53.529 --> 00:09:57.529 He suffers in his life outside the home because of her 00:09:57.529 --> 00:10:02.330 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 00:10:02.330 --> 00:10:05.330 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 00:10:05.330 --> 00:10:13.870 The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him