The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him
Women and hard work outside the home
The two women had to leave their home to graze the sheep
Because there is no man to do this task on their behalf
The father, as they described him, is an old man who is not able to struggle with herding sheep
There is no alternative to them
So I went out out of necessity to graze, not out of love for working outside the home
The evidence for this is that they are at the first opportunity to find an alternative
One of them offered advice to her father by saying:
O father, do you hire? The best person to hire is the strong and trustworthy
Even if they like to work outside the home
When I presented this proposal to their father
Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said
She said to her father, Father, you are renting
That is, to herd these sheep
The other proof is their common sense
Women naturally tend to decide at home
She doesn't bother with that
This can be realized in her since childhood
The child wants to leave the house
Playing outside the house is more than the girl wants
When the girl is ordered to stay at home and not go out
Don't be upset about it
Unlike the boy, he is upset by staying at home
It is a call for women to leave their homes
And denying her nature
I first came out in the West
It was the reason for that
The man shirks his responsibilities towards the woman
And the desire of the immoral people among them to enjoy women in all fields
What resulted from this invitation?
It has produced a painful reality that rational people do not disagree with
Dr. Al-Sibai, may God have mercy on him, says
It brings together all those who visited the West from the East
Especially Arab Muslims
However, women there are in a painful and unenviable situation
I have visited Europe four times
I did not suffer from anything as much as I did from the misery of the Western woman
And vulgarity for the sake of a living
Or her desire to be just like a man
Western men have been unable to exploit women's weakness in this regard
He exploited her to the utmost extent for the sake of his material benefits and sexual desires
It has been confirmed for me after everything I have seen
That Muslim women are what they are today
He is happier and has a more honorable status than Western women
It is not surprising then if we hear and read demands from women in the West
The woman returns to her home
Devoting herself to her children and husband
To find her true self
In this proposal proposed by one of them
Third evidence of their desire to decide at home
He left work tending to sheep
This is not in harmony with their nature and the nature of their creation
It is in her words
The best person to hire is the strong and trustworthy
Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said
That is, Moses was the first to be hired
It combines strength and honesty
The best employee is the one who brings them together
That is, the power and ability to do what he was hired to do
And honesty in it is not betrayal
The meaning here is strength
She is the one who was lost in Sheikh Al-Kabir
She was the one who made the girl propose this proposal to her father
Because it is missing in women in general
Women are naturally weak
Evidenced by the words of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
Oh God, I embarrass the rights of the weak
Orphan and woman
Narrated by Ibn Majah
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, considered her weak
He combined it with the orphan in the same capacity
It is a characteristic of weakness
If the woman is naturally weak
It is unfair for her to be treated like a man
Men are given hard work
Implementation of CEDAW decisions
And pictures of that
Working hours imposed on women
And start working hours
They do not fit the nature and character of women
And the main job assigned to it
It is taking care of the family
Of motherhood and custody
Taking care of the husband, home, and others
We find women getting up before dawn
To prepare herself to go to work
People stand in queues
Waiting for public transportation
You ride with them in a frightening crowd between men and women
To get to work on time
Then she gives her best energy and a bright face during the work period
Which is usually eight hours straight
To return once again to the cycle of waiting for crowded transportation
She arrived home exhausted and tired
She throws herself on her bed to get some rest
Or throw herself into the work that awaits her at home
To increase the burden of this exhausted body
What is expected from such a working woman?
To provide her children with love, tenderness and a smile
Before they leave home to school
What do we expect from her to provide them with good reception?
They will have good food and housing if they return home
After a stressful day of school, he did not respect their innocent childhood
What do we expect her to offer to her married life?
Who cares for this husband who is looking for a place to shelter from the hardships of this world?
Islam does not prohibit women from working
But controls were put in place for him
Whoever fulfills these controls is permitted to work
Whoever violates these controls
Work has become haram
Or in the circle of evil for women
Firstly, these controls
The work must be permissible
Singing and dancing are forbidden activities
Connecting poetry and namas are forbidden acts
Prostitution is a forbidden business
Secondly, the woman must be disciplined by the legal controls for leaving the house
Such as not going out wearing perfume or adornment
Third, do not crowd with men
It is not permissible for a woman to work in mixed jobs
Because it exposes women to many legal violations
Including wearing a cover in her clothing
He broke the barrier of modesty between her and the man
Her chastity is affected and causes the excitement of men’s lust and other things
Fourthly, her work should not lead to negligence in the husband’s rights
Or the loss of children or negligence in taking care of the home
Fifthly, her work should not lead to the company of immoral women
The friend will love it
Sixthly, the work should not harm it
In the hadith, there is no harm or harm
Narrated by Ibn Majah
Seventh, the work should not lead to the loss of her religion
It is one of the most important controls
Eighthly, work should not kill her femininity
And other legal controls for women’s work
Here's this late confession from the American actress
Barbara Sriand in her latest newspaper article
Where she said
I'm starting to realize that I'm missing many things
I cared too much about the artistic life
I forgot my life as a woman and as a human being
Which today makes me envy women who have enough time
To take care of their husbands and children
And the truth
Success and fame are meaningless in the absence of a normal family life
Where a woman feels like a woman
Did you realize the blessing of decision-making at home?
Like a queen cared for by a man
He suffers in his life outside the home because of her
We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing
Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds
The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him