1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,000 The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him 2 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:14,900 Women and hard work outside the home 3 00:00:14,900 --> 00:00:21,570 The two women had to leave their home to graze the sheep 4 00:00:21,570 --> 00:00:26,570 Because there is no man to do this task on their behalf 5 00:00:26,570 --> 00:00:33,570 The father, as they described him, is an old man who is not able to struggle with herding sheep 6 00:00:33,570 --> 00:00:35,570 There is no alternative to them 7 00:00:35,570 --> 00:00:40,570 So I went out out of necessity to graze, not out of love for working outside the home 8 00:00:40,570 --> 00:00:45,570 The evidence for this is that they are at the first opportunity to find an alternative 9 00:00:45,570 --> 00:00:50,570 One of them offered advice to her father by saying: 10 00:00:50,570 --> 00:00:56,570 O father, do you hire? The best person to hire is the strong and trustworthy 11 00:00:56,570 --> 00:00:59,570 Even if they like to work outside the home 12 00:00:59,570 --> 00:01:03,570 When I presented this proposal to their father 13 00:01:03,570 --> 00:01:06,599 Ibn Kathir, may God have mercy on him, said 14 00:01:06,599 --> 00:01:09,599 She said to her father, Father, you are renting 15 00:01:09,599 --> 00:01:11,599 That is, to herd these sheep 16 00:01:11,599 --> 00:01:16,980 The other proof is their common sense 17 00:01:16,980 --> 00:01:20,980 Women naturally tend to decide at home 18 00:01:20,980 --> 00:01:22,980 She doesn't bother with that 19 00:01:22,980 --> 00:01:26,980 This can be realized in her since childhood 20 00:01:26,980 --> 00:01:29,980 The child wants to leave the house 21 00:01:29,980 --> 00:01:33,980 Playing outside the house is more than the girl wants 22 00:01:33,980 --> 00:01:39,069 When the girl is ordered to stay at home and not go out 23 00:01:39,069 --> 00:01:41,069 Don't be upset about it 24 00:01:41,069 --> 00:01:46,069 Unlike the boy, he is upset by staying at home 25 00:01:46,069 --> 00:01:50,200 It is a call for women to leave their homes 26 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:52,200 And denying her nature 27 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:55,200 I first came out in the West 28 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:57,200 It was the reason for that 29 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:02,200 The man shirks his responsibilities towards the woman 30 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:07,200 And the desire of the immoral people among them to enjoy women in all fields 31 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:10,199 What resulted from this invitation? 32 00:02:10,199 --> 00:02:15,330 It has produced a painful reality that rational people do not disagree with 33 00:02:15,330 --> 00:02:19,419 Dr. Al-Sibai, may God have mercy on him, says 34 00:02:19,419 --> 00:02:23,419 It brings together all those who visited the West from the East 35 00:02:23,419 --> 00:02:25,419 Especially Arab Muslims 36 00:02:25,419 --> 00:02:30,419 However, women there are in a painful and unenviable situation 37 00:02:30,419 --> 00:02:33,520 I have visited Europe four times 38 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:39,520 I did not suffer from anything as much as I did from the misery of the Western woman 39 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:42,520 And vulgarity for the sake of a living 40 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:46,520 Or her desire to be just like a man 41 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:52,520 Western men have been unable to exploit women's weakness in this regard 42 00:02:53,520 --> 00:03:00,520 He exploited her to the utmost extent for the sake of his material benefits and sexual desires 43 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:03,580 It has been confirmed for me after everything I have seen 44 00:03:03,580 --> 00:03:07,580 That Muslim women are what they are today 45 00:03:07,580 --> 00:03:12,580 He is happier and has a more honorable status than Western women 46 00:03:12,580 --> 00:03:19,319 It is not surprising then if we hear and read demands from women in the West 47 00:03:19,319 --> 00:03:22,319 The woman returns to her home 48 00:03:22,319 --> 00:03:25,319 Devoting herself to her children and husband 49 00:03:25,319 --> 00:03:28,319 To find her true self 50 00:03:28,319 --> 00:03:31,479 In this proposal proposed by one of them 51 00:03:31,479 --> 00:03:35,479 Third evidence of their desire to decide at home 52 00:03:35,479 --> 00:03:38,479 He left work tending to sheep 53 00:03:38,479 --> 00:03:43,479 This is not in harmony with their nature and the nature of their creation 54 00:03:43,479 --> 00:03:45,479 It is in her words 55 00:03:45,479 --> 00:03:49,479 The best person to hire is the strong and trustworthy 56 00:03:49,479 --> 00:03:52,509 Al-Saadi, may God have mercy on him, said 57 00:03:52,509 --> 00:03:55,509 That is, Moses was the first to be hired 58 00:03:55,509 --> 00:03:58,509 It combines strength and honesty 59 00:03:58,509 --> 00:04:02,509 The best employee is the one who brings them together 60 00:04:02,509 --> 00:04:06,509 That is, the power and ability to do what he was hired to do 61 00:04:06,509 --> 00:04:09,509 And honesty in it is not betrayal 62 00:04:09,509 --> 00:04:13,180 The meaning here is strength 63 00:04:14,180 --> 00:04:17,180 She is the one who was lost in Sheikh Al-Kabir 64 00:04:17,180 --> 00:04:22,180 She was the one who made the girl propose this proposal to her father 65 00:04:22,180 --> 00:04:25,180 Because it is missing in women in general 66 00:04:25,180 --> 00:04:28,180 Women are naturally weak 67 00:04:28,180 --> 00:04:32,180 Evidenced by the words of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 68 00:04:32,180 --> 00:04:36,180 Oh God, I embarrass the rights of the weak 69 00:04:36,180 --> 00:04:38,180 Orphan and woman 70 00:04:38,180 --> 00:04:40,310 Narrated by Ibn Majah 71 00:04:40,310 --> 00:04:44,310 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, considered her weak 72 00:04:44,310 --> 00:04:47,310 He combined it with the orphan in the same capacity 73 00:04:47,310 --> 00:04:49,310 It is a characteristic of weakness 74 00:04:49,310 --> 00:04:53,589 If the woman is naturally weak 75 00:04:53,589 --> 00:04:57,589 It is unfair for her to be treated like a man 76 00:04:57,589 --> 00:05:00,589 Men are given hard work 77 00:05:00,589 --> 00:05:04,589 Implementation of CEDAW decisions 78 00:05:04,589 --> 00:05:06,689 And pictures of that 79 00:05:06,689 --> 00:05:09,689 Working hours imposed on women 80 00:05:09,689 --> 00:05:11,689 And start working hours 81 00:05:11,689 --> 00:05:15,689 They do not fit the nature and character of women 82 00:05:15,689 --> 00:05:18,689 And the main job assigned to it 83 00:05:18,689 --> 00:05:20,689 It is taking care of the family 84 00:05:20,689 --> 00:05:23,689 Of motherhood and custody 85 00:05:23,689 --> 00:05:26,750 Taking care of the husband, home, and others 86 00:05:26,750 --> 00:05:29,750 We find women getting up before dawn 87 00:05:29,750 --> 00:05:32,750 To prepare herself to go to work 88 00:05:32,750 --> 00:05:35,750 People stand in queues 89 00:05:35,750 --> 00:05:38,750 Waiting for public transportation 90 00:05:38,750 --> 00:05:43,750 You ride with them in a frightening crowd between men and women 91 00:05:43,750 --> 00:05:46,750 To get to work on time 92 00:05:46,750 --> 00:05:52,750 Then she gives her best energy and a bright face during the work period 93 00:05:52,750 --> 00:05:56,750 Which is usually eight hours straight 94 00:05:56,750 --> 00:06:02,750 To return once again to the cycle of waiting for crowded transportation 95 00:06:02,750 --> 00:06:05,750 She arrived home exhausted and tired 96 00:06:06,750 --> 00:06:11,750 She throws herself on her bed to get some rest 97 00:06:11,750 --> 00:06:15,750 Or throw herself into the work that awaits her at home 98 00:06:15,750 --> 00:06:19,750 To increase the burden of this exhausted body 99 00:06:19,750 --> 00:06:23,850 What is expected from such a working woman? 100 00:06:23,850 --> 00:06:28,850 To provide her children with love, tenderness and a smile 101 00:06:28,850 --> 00:06:31,850 Before they leave home to school 102 00:06:31,850 --> 00:06:36,850 What do we expect from her to provide them with good reception? 103 00:06:36,850 --> 00:06:40,850 They will have good food and housing if they return home 104 00:06:40,850 --> 00:06:46,850 After a stressful day of school, he did not respect their innocent childhood 105 00:06:46,850 --> 00:06:50,850 What do we expect her to offer to her married life? 106 00:06:50,850 --> 00:06:57,850 Who cares for this husband who is looking for a place to shelter from the hardships of this world? 107 00:06:59,170 --> 00:07:02,170 Islam does not prohibit women from working 108 00:07:02,170 --> 00:07:05,170 But controls were put in place for him 109 00:07:05,170 --> 00:07:09,170 Whoever fulfills these controls is permitted to work 110 00:07:09,170 --> 00:07:12,170 Whoever violates these controls 111 00:07:12,170 --> 00:07:15,170 Work has become haram 112 00:07:15,170 --> 00:07:18,170 Or in the circle of evil for women 113 00:07:18,170 --> 00:07:21,300 Firstly, these controls 114 00:07:21,300 --> 00:07:24,300 The work must be permissible 115 00:07:24,300 --> 00:07:27,300 Singing and dancing are forbidden activities 116 00:07:27,300 --> 00:07:31,300 Connecting poetry and namas are forbidden acts 117 00:07:31,300 --> 00:07:34,300 Prostitution is a forbidden business 118 00:07:34,300 --> 00:07:41,519 Secondly, the woman must be disciplined by the legal controls for leaving the house 119 00:07:41,519 --> 00:07:45,519 Such as not going out wearing perfume or adornment 120 00:07:45,519 --> 00:07:49,620 Third, do not crowd with men 121 00:07:49,620 --> 00:07:54,620 It is not permissible for a woman to work in mixed jobs 122 00:07:54,620 --> 00:07:59,620 Because it exposes women to many legal violations 123 00:07:59,620 --> 00:08:03,620 Including wearing a cover in her clothing 124 00:08:03,620 --> 00:08:07,620 He broke the barrier of modesty between her and the man 125 00:08:07,620 --> 00:08:14,810 Her chastity is affected and causes the excitement of men’s lust and other things 126 00:08:14,810 --> 00:08:19,810 Fourthly, her work should not lead to negligence in the husband’s rights 127 00:08:19,810 --> 00:08:24,810 Or the loss of children or negligence in taking care of the home 128 00:08:24,810 --> 00:08:30,870 Fifthly, her work should not lead to the company of immoral women 129 00:08:30,870 --> 00:08:32,870 The friend will love it 130 00:08:32,870 --> 00:08:37,940 Sixthly, the work should not harm it 131 00:08:37,940 --> 00:08:41,940 In the hadith, there is no harm or harm 132 00:08:41,940 --> 00:08:43,940 Narrated by Ibn Majah 133 00:08:43,940 --> 00:08:49,100 Seventh, the work should not lead to the loss of her religion 134 00:08:49,100 --> 00:08:52,190 It is one of the most important controls 135 00:08:52,190 --> 00:08:57,190 Eighthly, work should not kill her femininity 136 00:08:57,190 --> 00:09:02,379 And other legal controls for women’s work 137 00:09:02,379 --> 00:09:07,379 Here's this late confession from the American actress 138 00:09:07,379 --> 00:09:12,379 Barbara Sriand in her latest newspaper article 139 00:09:12,379 --> 00:09:14,379 Where she said 140 00:09:14,379 --> 00:09:19,379 I'm starting to realize that I'm missing many things 141 00:09:19,379 --> 00:09:23,379 I cared too much about the artistic life 142 00:09:23,379 --> 00:09:27,379 I forgot my life as a woman and as a human being 143 00:09:27,379 --> 00:09:32,379 Which today makes me envy women who have enough time 144 00:09:32,379 --> 00:09:36,379 To take care of their husbands and children 145 00:09:36,379 --> 00:09:37,379 And the truth 146 00:09:37,379 --> 00:09:43,379 Success and fame are meaningless in the absence of a normal family life 147 00:09:43,379 --> 00:09:47,529 Where a woman feels like a woman 148 00:09:47,529 --> 00:09:50,529 Did you realize the blessing of decision-making at home? 149 00:09:50,529 --> 00:09:53,529 Like a queen cared for by a man 150 00:09:53,529 --> 00:09:57,529 He suffers in his life outside the home because of her 151 00:09:57,529 --> 00:10:02,330 We will continue in an upcoming meeting, God willing 152 00:10:02,330 --> 00:10:05,330 Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds 153 00:10:05,330 --> 00:10:13,870 The story of women's suffering in the time of Moses, peace be upon him