WEBVTT 00:00:01.419 --> 00:00:07.419 The story of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:00:07.419 --> 00:00:17.710 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, crying before the Day of Arafah 00:00:17.710 --> 00:00:21.710 When it was the Day of Tarwiyah, people began Hajj 00:00:21.710 --> 00:00:24.710 And they went to us 00:00:24.710 --> 00:00:29.710 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, waited throughout her menstruation 00:00:29.710 --> 00:00:32.710 Perhaps she will purify herself before the Day of Arafah 00:00:32.710 --> 00:00:37.710 But she was not cleansed, so she cried again 00:00:37.710 --> 00:00:42.710 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon her while she was crying 00:00:42.710 --> 00:00:45.710 She complained to him about her situation 00:00:45.710 --> 00:00:48.710 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 00:00:48.710 --> 00:00:54.710 The day of Arafah caught me while I was menstruating and had not completed my Umrah 00:00:54.710 --> 00:00:59.710 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to me while I was crying 00:00:59.710 --> 00:01:06.709 He said, “What makes you cry?” I said, “I wish I had not gone out this year.” 00:01:06.709 --> 00:01:11.709 So I complained about this to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:01:11.709 --> 00:01:18.709 He said, “Leave your Umrah, complete your head, and comb your hair, and allow me to perform Hajj.” 00:01:18.709 --> 00:01:22.709 And do what Muslims do during their Hajj 00:01:22.709 --> 00:01:27.900 So I did. Jaber bin Abdullah, may God be pleased with them, said 00:01:27.900 --> 00:01:30.900 Then we performed the Ihram on the Day of Tarwiyah 00:01:30.900 --> 00:01:36.900 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:01:36.900 --> 00:01:38.900 He found her crying 00:01:38.900 --> 00:01:41.900 He said: What is your business? 00:01:41.900 --> 00:01:46.030 She said that I had menstruation 00:01:46.030 --> 00:01:51.030 The people were permitted to enter, but I was not permitted and did not circumambulate the Kaaba 00:01:51.030 --> 00:01:54.030 People go to Hajj now 00:01:55.030 --> 00:02:00.030 He said that this is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam 00:02:00.030 --> 00:02:04.030 So wash yourself and then make me eligible for Hajj 00:02:04.030 --> 00:02:07.030 So I did and the positions stopped 00:02:07.030 --> 00:02:13.030 Even when she is pure, she circumambulates the Kaaba, Safa, and Marwa 00:02:13.030 --> 00:02:17.699 This second crying is different from the first crying 00:02:17.699 --> 00:02:23.699 The first crying was because she had her period before performing the age 00:02:23.699 --> 00:02:29.699 The second crying was because she had entered Hajj and had not purified herself 00:02:29.699 --> 00:02:33.699 This is a warning to husbands and women’s guardians 00:02:33.699 --> 00:02:38.699 That they take into consideration the woman’s psychology if she menstruates during Hajj or elsewhere 00:02:38.699 --> 00:02:44.699 And they should strive to solve the problem that she faces due to menstruation 00:02:44.699 --> 00:02:49.759 How should you behave if you have not purified yourself before Arafat? 00:02:49.759 --> 00:02:56.460 The waiting for our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, continued until the night of Arafat 00:02:56.460 --> 00:03:02.500 She was not in a hurry, so she abandoned her Umrah from the beginning of the day on the day of Tarwiyah 00:03:02.500 --> 00:03:05.500 Rather, I waited until time ran out 00:03:05.500 --> 00:03:09.530 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said 00:03:09.530 --> 00:03:12.530 When the night of Arafat entered 00:03:12.530 --> 00:03:14.530 I said, O Messenger of God 00:03:14.530 --> 00:03:17.530 I was worthy of Umrah 00:03:17.530 --> 00:03:19.530 So how do I make my argument? 00:03:19.530 --> 00:03:20.560 He said 00:03:20.560 --> 00:03:23.560 Get your head down and cry 00:03:23.560 --> 00:03:27.750 I will refrain from Umrah and my family will perform Hajj 00:03:27.750 --> 00:03:32.750 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered her to wash herself for ihram 00:03:32.750 --> 00:03:35.750 It is performed for Hajj and is called Umrah 00:03:35.750 --> 00:03:42.330 That is, you should abandon the rituals of Umrah, such as Tawaf and Sa’i, and perform Ihram for Hajj 00:03:42.330 --> 00:03:46.330 What is beautiful is the biography of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:03:46.330 --> 00:03:52.330 As soon as she heard the order from our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:03:52.330 --> 00:03:56.330 However, it was quickly implemented without controversy 00:03:56.330 --> 00:04:00.360 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 00:04:00.360 --> 00:04:04.360 I was still menstruating until the day of Arafah 00:04:04.360 --> 00:04:07.360 I only entered Ihram for Umrah 00:04:07.360 --> 00:04:12.360 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered me to comb my head and comb it 00:04:12.360 --> 00:04:15.360 I will perform Hajj and abandon Umrah 00:04:15.360 --> 00:04:17.360 So I did that 00:04:17.360 --> 00:04:21.360 This is the biography of the mothers of all believers 00:04:21.360 --> 00:04:24.360 And the biography of the Companions, male and female companions 00:04:24.360 --> 00:04:30.360 They respond to the command of God and the command of His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:30.360 --> 00:04:35.360 They do not avoid performing the rituals and look for concessions 00:04:35.360 --> 00:04:39.360 Rather, their eyes were on the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:39.360 --> 00:04:41.360 Look what he does 00:04:41.360 --> 00:04:43.360 And they do the same 00:04:43.360 --> 00:04:46.490 This is a warning to you, my dear sister 00:04:46.490 --> 00:04:49.490 To be your motto during Hajj 00:04:49.490 --> 00:04:52.490 The saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:04:52.490 --> 00:04:55.490 Take your rituals from me 00:04:55.490 --> 00:04:59.490 Perhaps you will not argue with us after this argument 00:04:59.490 --> 00:05:03.490 So this argument is your only argument 00:05:03.490 --> 00:05:06.490 It is a justified argument 00:05:06.490 --> 00:05:11.089 Do as the Hajj does 00:05:11.089 --> 00:05:15.730 However, do not circumambulate the House until you are pure 00:05:15.730 --> 00:05:19.730 This is the guidance of our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:05:19.730 --> 00:05:22.730 To our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 00:05:22.730 --> 00:05:24.730 When she had her period during Hajj 00:05:24.730 --> 00:05:29.759 A menstruating woman was prohibited from circumambulating the House while in ihram 00:05:29.759 --> 00:05:32.759 She was not prevented from witnessing the rest of the feelings 00:05:32.759 --> 00:05:36.759 Rather, she was ordered to do as the Hajj does 00:05:36.759 --> 00:05:38.759 And Hajj works 00:05:38.759 --> 00:05:42.759 Combined with remembrance, fulfillment, and supplication 00:05:42.759 --> 00:05:46.759 Menstruating women were not prevented from doing any of that 00:05:46.759 --> 00:05:50.339 Dhikr includes reading the Qur’an 00:05:50.339 --> 00:05:53.339 It is for the work of the pilgrim 00:05:53.339 --> 00:05:58.339 A menstruating woman in ihram was not prevented from reading the Qur’an 00:05:58.339 --> 00:06:01.339 Neither the Talbiyah nor the Tahlil 00:06:01.339 --> 00:06:04.339 Neither from prayer nor from anything else 00:06:04.339 --> 00:06:06.339 Except for circumambulating the Kaaba 00:06:07.339 --> 00:06:12.339 So, my dear sister, do not deprive yourself of reading the Qur’an 00:06:12.339 --> 00:06:14.339 Under the pretext that you are menstruating 00:06:14.339 --> 00:06:18.339 Not during Hajj, not during Ramadan, or at any other time 00:06:18.339 --> 00:06:21.339 Rather, it is more than reading the Qur’an and dhikr 00:06:21.339 --> 00:06:25.339 Take advantage of the good times and days 00:06:25.339 --> 00:06:27.339 And obey the command of your Lord 00:06:27.339 --> 00:06:31.339 By abandoning prayer, fasting, and circumambulating the House during menstruation 00:06:31.339 --> 00:06:37.129 A wise move by our mother Maimuna, may God be pleased with her 00:06:38.129 --> 00:06:40.829 On the day he knew him 00:06:40.829 --> 00:06:43.829 After the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, prayed 00:06:43.829 --> 00:06:45.829 Noon and afternoon 00:06:45.829 --> 00:06:47.829 Head to the rocks 00:06:47.829 --> 00:06:50.829 And put it between him and the kiss 00:06:50.829 --> 00:06:53.829 He stood on his camel praying for a long time 00:06:53.829 --> 00:06:56.829 This is a long stand 00:06:56.829 --> 00:06:58.829 Make people complain 00:06:58.829 --> 00:07:01.829 Was the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace? 00:07:01.829 --> 00:07:03.829 Fasting first 00:07:03.829 --> 00:07:07.019 Maymunah, may God be pleased with her, was not safe from us 00:07:07.019 --> 00:07:10.019 However, I sent him a milkmaid 00:07:10.019 --> 00:07:13.019 He is standing in the position 00:07:13.019 --> 00:07:16.019 So he drank from it while the people watched 00:07:16.019 --> 00:07:18.120 And you mean milkmaid 00:07:18.120 --> 00:07:20.120 It is dairy milk 00:07:20.120 --> 00:07:23.120 Or the vessel in which milk is placed 00:07:23.120 --> 00:07:25.120 And this behavior 00:07:25.120 --> 00:07:29.120 It occurred from her and her sister, Umm al-Fadl bint al-Harith 00:07:29.120 --> 00:07:31.120 As she told it herself 00:07:31.120 --> 00:07:34.120 That people disagreed on the Day of Arafat 00:07:34.120 --> 00:07:36.120 In the fasting of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:07:36.120 --> 00:07:38.120 Some of them said 00:07:38.120 --> 00:07:39.120 He is fasting 00:07:39.120 --> 00:07:41.120 Some of them said 00:07:41.120 --> 00:07:43.120 Not fasting 00:07:43.120 --> 00:07:46.120 So I sent him a cup of milk 00:07:46.120 --> 00:07:48.120 He was standing on his camel 00:07:48.120 --> 00:07:49.120 So he drank 00:07:49.120 --> 00:07:52.120 Perhaps it was a single incident 00:07:52.120 --> 00:07:55.220 I fell in the presence of them all 00:07:55.220 --> 00:07:57.220 And in this behavior 00:07:57.220 --> 00:07:59.860 Evidence of their acumen 00:07:59.860 --> 00:08:01.860 In exploring the legal ruling 00:08:01.860 --> 00:08:03.860 In this gentle way 00:08:03.860 --> 00:08:05.860 Appropriate condition 00:08:05.860 --> 00:08:08.860 Because it was a free day 00:08:08.860 --> 00:08:10.860 In the afternoon 00:08:10.860 --> 00:08:14.980 The reason why people disagree about the fast of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:14.980 --> 00:08:17.980 Or his breakfast on the day of Arafah 00:08:17.980 --> 00:08:19.980 What knowledge they had before 00:08:19.980 --> 00:08:22.980 They learned it from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:22.980 --> 00:08:25.980 On the virtue of fasting on the day of Arafat 00:08:25.980 --> 00:08:28.980 And it expiates two years 00:08:28.980 --> 00:08:29.980 So they complained 00:08:29.980 --> 00:08:31.980 Is this for Hajj? 00:08:31.980 --> 00:08:33.980 Also or not 00:08:33.980 --> 00:08:35.980 The reason for this doubt 00:08:35.980 --> 00:08:39.980 They did not see the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 00:08:39.980 --> 00:08:42.980 He eats or drinks after the noon prayer 00:08:42.980 --> 00:08:45.980 And until the middle of the afternoon prayer 00:08:45.980 --> 00:08:48.980 Our mother, Maymouna, cut off any doubt 00:08:48.980 --> 00:08:50.980 And I reached the verdict 00:08:50.980 --> 00:08:52.980 In a nice way 00:08:52.980 --> 00:08:55.980 So I sent him the milk in a mug 00:08:55.980 --> 00:08:57.980 When he drank it 00:08:57.980 --> 00:08:59.980 People knew that 00:08:59.980 --> 00:09:02.980 He was not fasting 00:09:02.980 --> 00:09:05.210 And so is my sister Hajja 00:09:05.210 --> 00:09:08.210 You can bring the legitimate ruling 00:09:08.210 --> 00:09:11.210 The controversy surrounding Hajj was interrupted 00:09:11.210 --> 00:09:14.210 Or change it in a beautiful way 00:09:14.210 --> 00:09:17.210 Communicate the legal ruling to those around you 00:09:17.210 --> 00:09:20.210 It brings reassurance to their hearts 00:09:20.210 --> 00:09:22.210 Don't make them angry 00:09:22.210 --> 00:09:25.240 An honest woman is not executed 00:09:25.240 --> 00:09:28.240 A way to convey the truth to people 00:09:28.240 --> 00:09:31.240 It may be a question addressed to the world 00:09:31.240 --> 00:09:33.240 Or a book distributed 00:09:33.240 --> 00:09:36.240 Or other means