1 00:00:01,419 --> 00:00:07,419 The story of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 2 00:00:07,419 --> 00:00:17,710 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, crying before the Day of Arafah 3 00:00:17,710 --> 00:00:21,710 When it was the Day of Tarwiyah, people began Hajj 4 00:00:21,710 --> 00:00:24,710 And they went to us 5 00:00:24,710 --> 00:00:29,710 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, waited throughout her menstruation 6 00:00:29,710 --> 00:00:32,710 Perhaps she will purify herself before the Day of Arafah 7 00:00:32,710 --> 00:00:37,710 But she was not cleansed, so she cried again 8 00:00:37,710 --> 00:00:42,710 Then the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon her while she was crying 9 00:00:42,710 --> 00:00:45,710 She complained to him about her situation 10 00:00:45,710 --> 00:00:48,710 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 11 00:00:48,710 --> 00:00:54,710 The day of Arafah caught me while I was menstruating and had not completed my Umrah 12 00:00:54,710 --> 00:00:59,710 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, came to me while I was crying 13 00:00:59,710 --> 00:01:06,709 He said, “What makes you cry?” I said, “I wish I had not gone out this year.” 14 00:01:06,709 --> 00:01:11,709 So I complained about this to the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 15 00:01:11,709 --> 00:01:18,709 He said, “Leave your Umrah, complete your head, and comb your hair, and allow me to perform Hajj.” 16 00:01:18,709 --> 00:01:22,709 And do what Muslims do during their Hajj 17 00:01:22,709 --> 00:01:27,900 So I did. Jaber bin Abdullah, may God be pleased with them, said 18 00:01:27,900 --> 00:01:30,900 Then we performed the Ihram on the Day of Tarwiyah 19 00:01:30,900 --> 00:01:36,900 Then the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, entered upon Aisha, may God be pleased with her 20 00:01:36,900 --> 00:01:38,900 He found her crying 21 00:01:38,900 --> 00:01:41,900 He said: What is your business? 22 00:01:41,900 --> 00:01:46,030 She said that I had menstruation 23 00:01:46,030 --> 00:01:51,030 The people were permitted to enter, but I was not permitted and did not circumambulate the Kaaba 24 00:01:51,030 --> 00:01:54,030 People go to Hajj now 25 00:01:55,030 --> 00:02:00,030 He said that this is something that God has decreed for the daughters of Adam 26 00:02:00,030 --> 00:02:04,030 So wash yourself and then make me eligible for Hajj 27 00:02:04,030 --> 00:02:07,030 So I did and the positions stopped 28 00:02:07,030 --> 00:02:13,030 Even when she is pure, she circumambulates the Kaaba, Safa, and Marwa 29 00:02:13,030 --> 00:02:17,699 This second crying is different from the first crying 30 00:02:17,699 --> 00:02:23,699 The first crying was because she had her period before performing the age 31 00:02:23,699 --> 00:02:29,699 The second crying was because she had entered Hajj and had not purified herself 32 00:02:29,699 --> 00:02:33,699 This is a warning to husbands and women’s guardians 33 00:02:33,699 --> 00:02:38,699 That they take into consideration the woman’s psychology if she menstruates during Hajj or elsewhere 34 00:02:38,699 --> 00:02:44,699 And they should strive to solve the problem that she faces due to menstruation 35 00:02:44,699 --> 00:02:49,759 How should you behave if you have not purified yourself before Arafat? 36 00:02:49,759 --> 00:02:56,460 The waiting for our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, continued until the night of Arafat 37 00:02:56,460 --> 00:03:02,500 She was not in a hurry, so she abandoned her Umrah from the beginning of the day on the day of Tarwiyah 38 00:03:02,500 --> 00:03:05,500 Rather, I waited until time ran out 39 00:03:05,500 --> 00:03:09,530 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, said 40 00:03:09,530 --> 00:03:12,530 When the night of Arafat entered 41 00:03:12,530 --> 00:03:14,530 I said, O Messenger of God 42 00:03:14,530 --> 00:03:17,530 I was worthy of Umrah 43 00:03:17,530 --> 00:03:19,530 So how do I make my argument? 44 00:03:19,530 --> 00:03:20,560 He said 45 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:23,560 Get your head down and cry 46 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:27,750 I will refrain from Umrah and my family will perform Hajj 47 00:03:27,750 --> 00:03:32,750 The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered her to wash herself for ihram 48 00:03:32,750 --> 00:03:35,750 It is performed for Hajj and is called Umrah 49 00:03:35,750 --> 00:03:42,330 That is, you should abandon the rituals of Umrah, such as Tawaf and Sa’i, and perform Ihram for Hajj 50 00:03:42,330 --> 00:03:46,330 What is beautiful is the biography of our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 51 00:03:46,330 --> 00:03:52,330 As soon as she heard the order from our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace 52 00:03:52,330 --> 00:03:56,330 However, it was quickly implemented without controversy 53 00:03:56,330 --> 00:04:00,360 Our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her, says 54 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:04,360 I was still menstruating until the day of Arafah 55 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:07,360 I only entered Ihram for Umrah 56 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:12,360 So the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, ordered me to comb my head and comb it 57 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:15,360 I will perform Hajj and abandon Umrah 58 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:17,360 So I did that 59 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:21,360 This is the biography of the mothers of all believers 60 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:24,360 And the biography of the Companions, male and female companions 61 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:30,360 They respond to the command of God and the command of His Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace 62 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:35,360 They do not avoid performing the rituals and look for concessions 63 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:39,360 Rather, their eyes were on the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 64 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:41,360 Look what he does 65 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:43,360 And they do the same 66 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:46,490 This is a warning to you, my dear sister 67 00:04:46,490 --> 00:04:49,490 To be your motto during Hajj 68 00:04:49,490 --> 00:04:52,490 The saying of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 69 00:04:52,490 --> 00:04:55,490 Take your rituals from me 70 00:04:55,490 --> 00:04:59,490 Perhaps you will not argue with us after this argument 71 00:04:59,490 --> 00:05:03,490 So this argument is your only argument 72 00:05:03,490 --> 00:05:06,490 It is a justified argument 73 00:05:06,490 --> 00:05:11,089 Do as the Hajj does 74 00:05:11,089 --> 00:05:15,730 However, do not circumambulate the House until you are pure 75 00:05:15,730 --> 00:05:19,730 This is the guidance of our Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace 76 00:05:19,730 --> 00:05:22,730 To our mother Aisha, may God be pleased with her 77 00:05:22,730 --> 00:05:24,730 When she had her period during Hajj 78 00:05:24,730 --> 00:05:29,759 A menstruating woman was prohibited from circumambulating the House while in ihram 79 00:05:29,759 --> 00:05:32,759 She was not prevented from witnessing the rest of the feelings 80 00:05:32,759 --> 00:05:36,759 Rather, she was ordered to do as the Hajj does 81 00:05:36,759 --> 00:05:38,759 And Hajj works 82 00:05:38,759 --> 00:05:42,759 Combined with remembrance, fulfillment, and supplication 83 00:05:42,759 --> 00:05:46,759 Menstruating women were not prevented from doing any of that 84 00:05:46,759 --> 00:05:50,339 Dhikr includes reading the Qur’an 85 00:05:50,339 --> 00:05:53,339 It is for the work of the pilgrim 86 00:05:53,339 --> 00:05:58,339 A menstruating woman in ihram was not prevented from reading the Qur’an 87 00:05:58,339 --> 00:06:01,339 Neither the Talbiyah nor the Tahlil 88 00:06:01,339 --> 00:06:04,339 Neither from prayer nor from anything else 89 00:06:04,339 --> 00:06:06,339 Except for circumambulating the Kaaba 90 00:06:07,339 --> 00:06:12,339 So, my dear sister, do not deprive yourself of reading the Qur’an 91 00:06:12,339 --> 00:06:14,339 Under the pretext that you are menstruating 92 00:06:14,339 --> 00:06:18,339 Not during Hajj, not during Ramadan, or at any other time 93 00:06:18,339 --> 00:06:21,339 Rather, it is more than reading the Qur’an and dhikr 94 00:06:21,339 --> 00:06:25,339 Take advantage of the good times and days 95 00:06:25,339 --> 00:06:27,339 And obey the command of your Lord 96 00:06:27,339 --> 00:06:31,339 By abandoning prayer, fasting, and circumambulating the House during menstruation 97 00:06:31,339 --> 00:06:37,129 A wise move by our mother Maimuna, may God be pleased with her 98 00:06:38,129 --> 00:06:40,829 On the day he knew him 99 00:06:40,829 --> 00:06:43,829 After the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, prayed 100 00:06:43,829 --> 00:06:45,829 Noon and afternoon 101 00:06:45,829 --> 00:06:47,829 Head to the rocks 102 00:06:47,829 --> 00:06:50,829 And put it between him and the kiss 103 00:06:50,829 --> 00:06:53,829 He stood on his camel praying for a long time 104 00:06:53,829 --> 00:06:56,829 This is a long stand 105 00:06:56,829 --> 00:06:58,829 Make people complain 106 00:06:58,829 --> 00:07:01,829 Was the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace? 107 00:07:01,829 --> 00:07:03,829 Fasting first 108 00:07:03,829 --> 00:07:07,019 Maymunah, may God be pleased with her, was not safe from us 109 00:07:07,019 --> 00:07:10,019 However, I sent him a milkmaid 110 00:07:10,019 --> 00:07:13,019 He is standing in the position 111 00:07:13,019 --> 00:07:16,019 So he drank from it while the people watched 112 00:07:16,019 --> 00:07:18,120 And you mean milkmaid 113 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:20,120 It is dairy milk 114 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:23,120 Or the vessel in which milk is placed 115 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:25,120 And this behavior 116 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:29,120 It occurred from her and her sister, Umm al-Fadl bint al-Harith 117 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:31,120 As she told it herself 118 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:34,120 That people disagreed on the Day of Arafat 119 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:36,120 In the fasting of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 120 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,120 Some of them said 121 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:39,120 He is fasting 122 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,120 Some of them said 123 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:43,120 Not fasting 124 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:46,120 So I sent him a cup of milk 125 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:48,120 He was standing on his camel 126 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:49,120 So he drank 127 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:52,120 Perhaps it was a single incident 128 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:55,220 I fell in the presence of them all 129 00:07:55,220 --> 00:07:57,220 And in this behavior 130 00:07:57,220 --> 00:07:59,860 Evidence of their acumen 131 00:07:59,860 --> 00:08:01,860 In exploring the legal ruling 132 00:08:01,860 --> 00:08:03,860 In this gentle way 133 00:08:03,860 --> 00:08:05,860 Appropriate condition 134 00:08:05,860 --> 00:08:08,860 Because it was a free day 135 00:08:08,860 --> 00:08:10,860 In the afternoon 136 00:08:10,860 --> 00:08:14,980 The reason why people disagree about the fast of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 137 00:08:14,980 --> 00:08:17,980 Or his breakfast on the day of Arafah 138 00:08:17,980 --> 00:08:19,980 What knowledge they had before 139 00:08:19,980 --> 00:08:22,980 They learned it from the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 140 00:08:22,980 --> 00:08:25,980 On the virtue of fasting on the day of Arafat 141 00:08:25,980 --> 00:08:28,980 And it expiates two years 142 00:08:28,980 --> 00:08:29,980 So they complained 143 00:08:29,980 --> 00:08:31,980 Is this for Hajj? 144 00:08:31,980 --> 00:08:33,980 Also or not 145 00:08:33,980 --> 00:08:35,980 The reason for this doubt 146 00:08:35,980 --> 00:08:39,980 They did not see the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace 147 00:08:39,980 --> 00:08:42,980 He eats or drinks after the noon prayer 148 00:08:42,980 --> 00:08:45,980 And until the middle of the afternoon prayer 149 00:08:45,980 --> 00:08:48,980 Our mother, Maymouna, cut off any doubt 150 00:08:48,980 --> 00:08:50,980 And I reached the verdict 151 00:08:50,980 --> 00:08:52,980 In a nice way 152 00:08:52,980 --> 00:08:55,980 So I sent him the milk in a mug 153 00:08:55,980 --> 00:08:57,980 When he drank it 154 00:08:57,980 --> 00:08:59,980 People knew that 155 00:08:59,980 --> 00:09:02,980 He was not fasting 156 00:09:02,980 --> 00:09:05,210 And so is my sister Hajja 157 00:09:05,210 --> 00:09:08,210 You can bring the legitimate ruling 158 00:09:08,210 --> 00:09:11,210 The controversy surrounding Hajj was interrupted 159 00:09:11,210 --> 00:09:14,210 Or change it in a beautiful way 160 00:09:14,210 --> 00:09:17,210 Communicate the legal ruling to those around you 161 00:09:17,210 --> 00:09:20,210 It brings reassurance to their hearts 162 00:09:20,210 --> 00:09:22,210 Don't make them angry 163 00:09:22,210 --> 00:09:25,240 An honest woman is not executed 164 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:28,240 A way to convey the truth to people 165 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:31,240 It may be a question addressed to the world 166 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:33,240 Or a book distributed 167 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:36,240 Or other means